everyone is being mean

[Lola offline]

I know a lot of people and I love all of them but they are always so mean to each other. Why cant they be nice??? First of all...my daddy is really strict and racist. He hardly ever lets me go out because hes afraid Ill get raped or something stupid. I know how to defend myself. Im fine. He wont let me use a computer because he thinks Ill put viruses on it (dont tell him I use internet and stuff hell get mad) and he always blames all his problems on white people when in truth (dont tell him I said this) he is really lazy. My grandpa was the same way. Then theres my friend David. We used to go out but not anymore. But were still friends. The other day he wouldnt stop calling me a lesbian. My other friend is like that too but not nearly as bad. At least I can be around Nick when he starts joking around. Anyway. I lost my anger so much I slapped him across the face. I dont like hiting people its bad!!! and I hurt him too. David was really hurt he could barely stand up after I slapped him. To make things worse. Everybody stopped laughing at me and started laughing at David because he just got slapped by a girl. What difference does it make? Why would they laugh at him in the first place????? everyone around me seems to be like this and I hate it!!!!!

[oddsgrlfriend offline]

*huggs* I honestly don't know what to tell you. Sorry.

[oddson offline]

i feel sorry for you .
my dad is like that as well im only allowd on the computer for only 2 hours a day and im not alowd to download stuff

[Lyoko SA80 offline]

Well you need to talk to you dad .Tell him how you feel .tell him that you can lok after yourself .But that if you can ok .David had it coming if he was or is your friend he knows what pisses you off and you weakness.Don't worry about people .People change.How david now .

[Lola offline]

Well you need to talk to you dad .Tell him how you feel .tell him that you can lok after yourself .But that if you can ok .David had it coming if he was or is your friend he knows what pisses you off and you weakness.Don't worry about people .People change.How david now .

Hes okay now I guess. The thing about David is that hes almost always pissed off about something....its kind of painful to watch even though he tries to ignore it.

[Lyoko SA80 offline]

Have you tried talking to him .Sitting down in a less stressful place and talking to him about his problems and then yours .LOL Even if it means tring him dowm with rope so be .You both really really need to talk .By the sound of it david is a walking time down ready to blow with rage and stress.

[Lola offline]

I know...I have tried talking with him before. I know all this stuff. He never took his anger out on anyone he loves although sometimes he does blow up around them. It was the reason I broke up with him. He refused to talk with me about anything that involved his past from before we met and backward. Then one day he got angry and started yelling at me about how everyone thinks he has a problem and that he needs help and how theres nothing wrong with him and I couldnt bare to see that anymore so I had to break up with him. Were still friends though thanks to Nick.
Something amazing happened the other day...a fight broke out in the cafeteria. This happens a lot especially when David is around...but this time...David didnt throw one punch. The other guy ran at him swinging like a maniac his fists flying everywhere and David just dodged every single one until the guy accidentally nearly broke his knuckles on a nearby brick wall. That was kind of weird but AWESOME!!! This could mean a new era for the district where non-violence is not just promoted but takes effect.

[Lyoko SA80 offline]

S a fight in a cafetera sweet .Wish I were there.So it dound like david has been thinking about his anger problem .He must been on the mead .Good for him .I trust you are keeping a eye on him since the fight at the staf (cafeteriain scots).Good to hear this I hope you both get back together.Keep me posted if evrything else happens ok .Good luck for the future ahead.

[Lola offline]

Were not getting back together. Were still friends. But were not getting back together like that. Neither of us can handle it. We be divorced now

Now someone I thought was my friend is being mean to my other friends behind his back. Anthony just did the meanest impression of Nick. NICK IS MY FRIEND AND HE ISNT LIKE THAT AT ALL HOW COULD HE SAY SOMETHING LIKE THAT!!!

[Lyoko SA80 offline]

oh sorry if i ipset you.I didn't mean to upset you .My bad.Hope you friendship contunie to be strong

[Rail Runner offline]

First off....I am your friend, second off, it was a joke, third off, I did apologize in the next response after that post.

[Lola offline]

Thats been worked out. You never answered my other question though.