Girlfriend Problems

[Yumi Ulrich offline]

Ok there is this girl in my class that is getting me something for chrsitmas and I don't have something for her! What should I get her? She likes Code Lyoko and that, and I need help! Oh yea I can't go out and by something because I don't want my parents figuring out. There is also a elfshop at school which I might be able to go buy her something like a heart necklace or something. I don' know so please Help me.

[. offline]

Flowers, jewlry... Girls like things like that (unless they're real tomboyish.)

my gut tells me to tell you that unless this girl is infact your gf in every sense of the word not to get her anything

[Yumi Ulrich offline]

Well she likes someone else, but he doesn't like her so there for she is mine and she is 13.

[. offline]

Well she likes someone else, but he doesn't like her so there for she is mine and she is 13.

tell you right now shes trouble and shes not worth it. voice of experience.

[Overcaffeinated Sloth offline]

Yes, because generalizations like that are absolutely true. Unless a girl shows up with a short choppy haircut and wears jeans that don't cut off circulation to her legs, get her a flower. In December.
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Just kidding though, TPP.

Well, if she's getting something for you as a friend, try making her a CL card or image or something. In all honesty, girls love cards just as much.

[Rail Runner offline]

First off, the girl is not yours. She has not agreed to it. Also, her liking someone else even if he does not like her in return still doesnt make her yours. I wouldnt get her anything, at least not yet.

[. offline]

Yes, because generalizations like that are absolutely true. Unless a girl shows up with a short choppy haircut and wears jeans that don't cut off circulation to her legs, get her a flower. In December.
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Just kidding though, TPP.

Well, if she's getting something for you as a friend, try making her a CL card or image or something. In all honesty, girls love cards just as much.

call me crazy Angel, but I'd like to think if I'm going for a girl shes not all ready ga-ga for someone else.

[Overcaffeinated Sloth offline]

Exactly the reason for the card. It's purpose can be interpreted so many ways, yet it can allways be positive. Things like necklaces and flowers can be taken as either friendly, which can result in dissapointment if she expected more, while necklaces are usually a show of serious affection. And if she's not ready for that, or has a guy allready, well then, explosions are pretty lokely, ne?

So the card can be a friendly offering, a home made one or one with personal thought can show gratification, which is a good way to go with girls, and if someone else like a friend or boyfrien sees it, there's a chance it'll be interpreted as a friendly gesture.

[Yumi Ulrich offline]

Well I forgot to mentioned she had a crush on me since the 4th grade and that is when I came to that school because my old school closed and been over her house 7 times!




Edit: Hey I got her the present ans she loved it and a week later it was a dress down day and she wore it and you guys say that I am crazy thinking that she likes me!

[JesusFreak offline]

She might be just being nice. Be careful not to go to early conclusions.

[oddsgrlfriend offline]

If she's likes it and she's wearing it I have a feeling that's a good sign. My friend gave me toe socks and as much as I adore my friend you don't see me wearing them (my toes are too small). Just relax and see what happens. You can also try and pull a mistletoe thing

[Yumi Ulrich offline]

Well officialy I am going out with her! So now what? Help me now please

[oddsgrlfriend offline]

Congrats! Ok well have you taken her out on a date yet? Start there then I'd say after the 3rd date you can kiss her. Make it short and sweet.