All I need is a good listener and a little advice.

[samurai65 offline]

Okay, here's another thing. What do you do when you like a guy (Who may or may not be your best friend) but he doesn't like you? We dated. We split. We try to be friends. Some of his friends say that he still likes me, but he says he doesn't. So what do I do about him? Do I just forget about him and move on or what? Please help!

Unfortunately, society says move on and forget him, go on to someone else. But take it from one who knows, it's almost impossible to forget and move on. That doesn't mean you should dwell on him and a relationship day and night, but just remembering him and the memories may just help.

[Vodka's Vengeance offline]

Well, that's a million dollar question right there. The only "real" friend I have is my hetero life mate (and not to mention band mate) Sebastian. We've been friend since 5th grade, so it's been about 8 years. My answer would have been more or less the same thing Lyoko Soldier posted.

[ODDCHEEZY offline]

I had the same problem. I broke up with my bf a few weeks ago and i wasn't sure if he liked me still. I figured out that you shouldn't dwell on it too much. keep living your life like you usually do. Time will tell.

[mcrlvr394 offline]

Ok. So that one's all figured out thanks to you guys! *kisses all around* Well, now I have a crush on this new guy but he likes my best friend. He also kinda-sorta forced me to tell him I liked him. He already knew though. Now my best friend is gonna ask him out! HELP ME!!

[tookys offline]

your best chance is to get a date with him before she asks him out

or

get him to tell her that he likes you.

[mcrlvr394 offline]

Yeah, but he doesn't like me. I guess I'm kinda over him but I hope he doesn't hate me after me telling him that I liked him. And to top it all off, I have to tell him I just wanna be friends with him. He'll probably think I'm like skitsofrentic of something. GRRRRRR!!! I HATE DRAMA!!!!!!

[tookys offline]

ok if he doesnt like you but you really dont like him but your friend likes him and your problem was with you and her in conflict???????

so whats the problem again?

[samurai65 offline]

[quote=I HATE DRAMA!!!!!![/quote]
Don't we all. I say that you just go up and ask if you two could be friends. It's happened to me many times.

[Phoenix Wolf offline]

Yeah, but he doesn't like me. I guess I'm kinda over him but I hope he doesn't hate me after me telling him that I liked him. And to top it all off, I have to tell him I just wanna be friends with him. He'll probably think I'm like skitsofrentic of something. GRRRRRR!!! I HATE DRAMA!!!!!!

Don't let the drama get to you , I hate it also. You do what you think is right follow your heart and mind and things will work them out. Don't let other peoples impressions get to you and don't worry about them. We are here for you and girl you got guts.

[samurai65 offline]

I agree, we all know what life is like.