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I'm meeting my father again...

Postby ginolyoko12 » Thu Feb 21, 2008 6:47 pm

My father is in the army. My mom, well they're seperated and I haven't seen her since I was 8.

But my dad, he left for Iraq in 5 years ago so I was 12 that time. Now, he's coming back this Saturday.
I'm 17 now. He might think I'm different, y'know? I'm scared he might treat me different now that I'm older. I won't be his little Gino anymore.

This doesn't seem like a rant.
But....you know. You might not understand.

My gaurdians want me to go to the airport when they pick him up.
What should I do?
Should I drive somewhere to clear my head or go when they pick him up?

Help.
My real name is Johnathan Ulrich Gino Dela-Cruz
But call me Gino for short :D
I'm 17!
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Postby Taelia » Thu Feb 21, 2008 7:09 pm

You'll ALWAYS be little inside. :)
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Postby Phoenix Wolf » Thu Feb 21, 2008 7:23 pm

You will always be his little girl, I am 23 and I am still my daddy's little girl. You do what you think is right, but this might be a great oppertunity for you.
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Postby JesusFreak » Thu Feb 21, 2008 7:23 pm

Agreed. Remember, he's yer dad.


I think you should go and meet him, but I don't know exactly how you feel. My Dad's never been gone for that long.
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Postby ginolyoko12 » Thu Feb 21, 2008 9:29 pm

BillyGirl wrote:You will always be his little girl, I am 23 and I am still my daddy's little girl. You do what you think is right, but this might be a great oppertunity for you.


Um...Im a guy.
Thanks for the advice though.

And for the others who've given me advice so far.
Thank you too
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Postby Phoenix Wolf » Thu Feb 21, 2008 10:11 pm

ooops sorry
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Postby Tangent128 » Thu Feb 21, 2008 11:26 pm

Remember, he's likely a little scared too.
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Postby ODDCHEEZY » Fri Feb 22, 2008 12:11 am

i can't give much advice considering I've never dealt with that but we'll be your moral support and cheer leaders *shudders at the thought of putting on cheer clothes but smiles anyways* just go give it a shot. you'll never know what he thinks until you go see him. if it doesn't work out then at least you can say you tried.
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Postby Vodka's Vengeance » Fri Feb 22, 2008 12:45 am

Try not to worry too much, and like some of the other people said.... You'll always be his little boy, I'm almost 19 and my parents still treat me like I'm 5. But be ready for him to probably be different, he did spend five years wondering if he was going to get his head blown off, and that's not exactly good for your health. But don't worry. Your going to see your dad for the first time in 5 years!
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Postby ginolyoko12 » Fri Feb 22, 2008 11:01 pm

BillyGirl wrote:ooops sorry


lol.
it's alright.

And to stick on topic.
Thanks for the advice so far!

Tomorrow he's coming and I probably might be confident to go.
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