Girl problems

[Lyoko Wario offline]

I'm 18 and I don't have a girlfriend. I never have had one and I'm pretty lonely now. My problem isn't that "there's this one girl" that I'm just crazy over but she doesn't know I exist. It's that I'm usually alone and, with the exception of friends that I've known for years, I don't meet anyone nice that I feel affection for and the girls I know never seem to like me much at all, even though there's nothing immediately wrong with either my looks or personality. (or so I think, anyway)

I know this sounds like a stupid or immature / little-boy problem, but I was actually feeling EXTREMELY bad about this yesterday and was wondering if there's something you guys can tell me that I should know on the subject. All except one of my friends are involved in a relationship right now, and now I even get upset when I hear random girls talking about their boyfriends.



(the seventh one is me right now)

[Exploder offline]

I went through this problem for the longest time. I very recently found one whom I love very dearly (and she loves me back! ) Don't fret, you will find someone. I thought I never would. I went through a lot of what you said (the rejection, the lack of interest) and I was struggling a lot. Think of what you want your ideal girlfriend to be like. I cannot stress enough that looks are not everything. In a few years, the beauty will be gone, but what never fades away is the personality. Evaluate your friends mentally, who knows, maybe one of them fits your bill. And if you really like someone, do something nice for them. Let them know you exist. If they're quality material they'll respond nicely. And IMO, online dating sites are the worst possible thing you can do. Don't forget that everyone has their own individual tastes, and what you prefer may not be what your best friend prefers. Trust me, there is someone out there for you.

[Phoenix Wolf offline]

You are a sweet guy, and someday you will find the right girl and she will treasure you and you her. Don't worry I am sure that when the time is right you will find your princess and she will that she will be the luckiest girl in the world to have you.

[ninja_ulrich offline]

I haven't really suffered girl problems. I'm in a steady relationship. my little piece of advice for the day is. Be yourself and don't be afraid to talk. If i were a girl i'd like the guy to come talk to me.

[JesusFreak offline]

All I know on thsi subject is that is generally best to try to talk to the girl in question. And to shut up and let her talk. Providing you know a topic that interests her.

You are a sweet guy, and someday you will find the right girl and she will treasure you and you her. Don't worry I am sure that when the time is right you will find your princess and she will that she will be the luckiest girl in the world to have you.

In the mean time, take comfort in the words of someone who knows what the heck she's doing in this matter.

[Lyoko SA80 offline]

argh man .you need some guts not as bad as halo .but girls are werid (not all of them).Just find the courage to ask her out on a date if you need advice I'm here and the rest of the lyoko gang.lol

[Lyoko Wario offline]

whoah, I just realized I never thanked you for your kindness and support...

...so yeah, thanks so much. I wish I could date every single one of you.

[ODDCHEEZY offline]

Aaaawww How sweet! It's not so bad I had that problem for the longest time. Just tell her how you feel.

edit: If you have trouble telling her face to face, write her a note or txt her. just don't come off too strong or you'll scare her off.

[JesusFreak offline]

whoah, I just realized I never thanked you for your kindness and support...

...so yeah, thanks so much. I wish I could date every single one of you.

Um, forgive me if the feeling isn't mutual.
Still, glad I could help.

[Lyoko Wario offline]

...so yeah, thanks so much. I wish I could date every single one of you.

Um, forgive me if the feeling isn't mutual.

...YOU HATE ME!! [/runs away crying]

[ODDCHEEZY offline]

Ignore JF. He/She is just jealous that they don't have the courage to talk about their problems. And don't worry. If you just act normal and she doesn't like you, then she's defiantly not the girl for you. It just means that she already likes somebody else or she's just an idiot for not liking the real you. Just don't pursue her too much. Once again to the part where you'll scare her off...

[Carth]

Like everyone's been saying, try to get to know her. Treat her as an equal, and I'm sure she'll be charmed.

And I'm sorry, but I'm kind of taken.

[JesusFreak offline]

Ignore JF. He/She is just jealous that they don't have the courage to talk about their problems.

Number one, I'm a dude. Number two, That...came out...mean...and...wrong. I just have enough issues with inter-gender relationships, and....oh, who am I kidding? I'm sorry for being a jerk. I misunderstood.

[size=0]And, for the record, I'm kinda trying to NOT be taken until the the girl I like allows me to. [/size]

[ODDCHEEZY offline]

Ignore JF. He/She is just jealous that they don't have the courage to talk about their problems.

Number one, I'm a dude. Number two, That...came out...mean...and...wrong. I just have enough issues with inter-gender relationships, and....oh, who am I kidding? I'm sorry for being a jerk. I misunderstood.

[size=0]And, for the record, I'm kinda trying to NOT be taken until the the girl I like allows me to. [/size]

Aw well i guess I shouldn't have been so rude. My mistake. And totally sorry about the whole he/she thing. Didn't know.