Is he a jerk?

[Crazy_For_Christ. offline]

Now see, my cousin at school, Nicole, needed to talk to me about her love-life. She had a HUGE GIGANTIC Crush on my best friend, Tyler. She was going to tell him at a party, but she didn't because the party got cancelled. Anyway, I told Tyler instead and he told me, "Yeah I know she likes me. And when she asks me out, I'm gonna spell no to her and then say it." Was he being a Jerk?

[Bootch offline]

Sounds like it.

He could have more tact and let your cousing down better than that.

[Jeremified offline]

Uhh... yeah, that guy's a jerk!

Hey, I have a friend named Tyler...

[4lpha0mega offline]

Shouldnt a rant be more than just a yes/no question?
I mean, couldnt you just ask someone on msn (or aim if you prefer) about it, rather than making a topic about it?
Also, if you want to emphesis something, put it in bold, not caps.
And does it really matter? Why not just tell your cousin that he'll say no, and the scenario wont even take place....

[some perplexity]

Snaps. That's really harsh. o__o;

A rant can be a yes/no question, in my opinion.

But, yes, Daisymay. Tyler was rude by saying that. If I were you, I'd tell your friend that you talked to him, and that he doesn't like her like that. It'll save her from embarresment. Plus, she probably doesn't deserve to have her heart crushed by such a jerky guy.

[Overcaffeinated Sloth offline]

OMG! Okay, I need his schedule, His address, and a video camera. I hate jerks like that!
Someone's gonna get visited by the shovel faeire tonight... and then the rotten broken tooth faeire!

[4lpha0mega offline]

Snaps. That's really harsh. o__o;

A rant can be a yes/no question, in my opinion.

My problem with this rant is that there isnt even a problem. Daisymay can just tell her cousin, and the problem is solved....

[odd girl offline]

he definately is a jerk, he could really upset her and more importantly get you angry and break up a friendship

[The BB of C offline]

That is definately being a jerk.

[enemyxwithin offline]

JERK ALERT RIGHT HERE!!!!

Yeah, he's being a jerk. Why in the world would he want to hurt your cousin? He seems kind of mean... (no offense, though!!!)

[some perplexity]

Snaps. That's really harsh. o__o;

A rant can be a yes/no question, in my opinion.

My problem with this rant is that there isnt even a problem. Daisymay can just tell her cousin, and the problem is solved....

Yes, but maybe she wanted an opinion on what she should do.

I'm soooo sorry for the spam, daisymay

[Insanity Hero offline]

A jerk in my eyes. He could just tell her nicely that he doesn't like her the way she likes him. It's people like him that make me just want to yell.

[Jeshibo offline]

yeah, that is really immature. i guess he has a right to like whoever he wants, but this dude could just let her down easy. that's just plain rude.

[Ransomed_Heart offline]

Yeah, that is definitly jerk-ish behavior. There are tons of nice ways to turn someone down, there is no need at all for him to behave in such a way.

[jym1 offline]

agree. It can really hurt to be turned down, but if it's done in the right way, then it's not as bad...

[Little Vili offline]

I told Tyler instead and he told me, "Yeah I know she likes me. And when she asks me out, I'm gonna spell no to her and then say it." Was he being a Jerk?

If he does, dont let him live. What a *resisting urge to swear on this forum*