Ouch

[DarkestSoul X21 offline]

This isn't about me my friend told me to do it,

Ok, I have a friend who found out that she is 5 mouths pregent (hope i spelled that right) and she doesn't know want to do and she doesn't know who the guy had sex with and my friend is in 8th grade and she really needs help

[The BB of C offline]

Oh crud! This is the hardcore stuff right here! First thing, financial help! See she gets as much of it as possible. Secondly, family support. That's just as important. Make sure she stays in school and gets into college. She's got a long road ahead of her, if she can get a college degree, it will make things easier.

[. offline]

...Wow. O.o

at that age... honestly, I'd tell her to talk to her parents and take it from there.

At that age I think etiher abortion or putting her unborn child up for an adoption would be the best bet...

....and prehaps, ya know... a good smack across the face? What the bloody heck is girl that age having sex anyway? I'm not an very religous person by any means, but does anyone follow abstence at all these days or am I just a plan old fashioned?

EDIT: Thinking it over, it's a little late to abort it (I'm sorta in the middle of it, I think the only time you can kill it off with out being murder is like when it's still an egg or just plain before it's like formed. I dunno, just what I think.). But definatly she MUST tell her parents.

[DarkestSoul X21 offline]

will she might of been drunk at that time and I hope that guy didn't raped her

[. offline]

will she might of been drunk at that time and I hope that guy didn't raped her

O.o

It answers one question yet raises so many others...

[MY85 offline]

This isn't about me my friend told me to do it,

He told you to do a thread about it??

Ok, I have a friend who found out that she is 5 mouths pregent (hope i spelled that right)

5 months pregnant. Seriously, take some spelling lessons.

[mooshie offline]

ok, well I reccomend donating the fetus to stem cell research, but if she doesn't go for that just remind her of all the maternal responsibilities, both monetary and disciplinary, and of course let her know what you think of it, and she shouldn't be getting drunk either

[Stephen (x1)]

Wow, I'm tired of you making a lot of Rant entries, BUT THEY AREN'T RANTS. Seriously, and learn to talk.

And, how about the girl just get help in one of those clinics.

[The BB of C offline]

I don't trust those clinics. They can be depressing which probably doesn't help in this situation.

[DarkestSoul X21 offline]

ok, i have an update

The girl got hit by a car and now she is in a coma, her parents don't know want to do, should they have a C-section or get rid of the baby

[lyokodragoness offline]

OW! I feel really bad for your friend and her family.

Whatever she does, DO NOT LET HER ABORT. Carelessly throwing away one's life makes me feel so empty and cold inside.

Go for C section - babies are born healthier through C Section. Believe me, I was.

Perhaps her family and friends can help her raise it?

[DarkestSoul X21 offline]

OW! I feel really bad for your friend and her family.

Whatever she does, DO NOT LET HER ABORT. Carelessly throwing away one's life makes me feel so empty and cold inside.

Go for C section - babies are born healthier through C Section. Believe me, I was.

Perhaps her family and friends can help her raise it?

I wasn't in the C-section, what is it like and I will tell her partents that,
thx lyokodragoness

[lyokodragoness offline]

You're welcome!

And C section is when you aren't born normally- your mother's stomach is cut open and, the doctors find the womb and cut it open, and get you out without you going through normally. I wasn't planned to actually be born thru C section, I was planned to be born normally - babies are born right side up, and they turn upside-down when they come out. But I was stubborn and didn't turn over. lol, I was stubborn as I am today! So my mom had to have C section to get me out.

If you're still confused, try the Wikipedia article.

[DarkestSoul X21 offline]

You're welcome!

And C section is when you aren't born normally- your mother's stomach is cut open and, the doctors find the womb and cut it open, and get you out without you going through normally. I wasn't planned to actually be born thru C section, I was planned to be born normally - babies are born right side up, and they turn upside-down when they come out. But I was stubborn and didn't turn over. lol, I was stubborn as I am today! So my mom had to have C section to get me out.

If you're still confused, try the Wikipedia article.

k thx and lol about the stubborn part

[The BB of C offline]

Holy crud, things are just getting worse for her family, isn't it? I agree with Lyokodragoness, go with the C-Section. How long do they expect her to be in a coma?

[DarkestSoul X21 offline]

Holy crud, things are just getting worse for her family, isn't it? I agree with Lyokodragoness, go with the C-Section. How long do they expect her to be in a coma?

there not sure

[The BB of C offline]

For what it's worth, I'll pray for this family. We should all hope for the best to come soon.

[DarkestSoul X21 offline]

For what it's worth, I'll pray for this family. We should all hope for the best to come soon.

yeah me 2

[Pikapower offline]

I feel REALLY, REALLY, REALLY sorry for her

[Jeremified offline]

One thing to say there.

0__o OMG!

[4lpha0mega offline]

Its times like this you begin to doubt that the average IQ is rising...

so, why didnt she get, like, an abortion?

"....and prehaps, ya know... a good smack across the face? What the bloody heck is girl that age having sex anyway? I'm not an very religous person by any means, but does anyone follow abstence at all these days or am I just a plan old fashioned?"
actually i think its because people are relying on other people to do things for them, these days, so they dont have to think about the consequences, as someone else will fix the problem...

I dont mean to be offensive, but some people bring it upon themselves...

[The BB of C offline]

By the time she found out, it was too late for an abortion. They can't abort a pregnancy if it's passed 3 months. Why? I'm not sure, I've forgotten.
People do tend to bring these things upon themselves.
Odd Della Robia, has anything changed, or is everyone still in the same position that they were in about two weeks ago?

[strok3d offline]

she has had sex so many times she doesnt know who it is? Wow expecially at that age!

[Skiiran Lord offline]

By the time she found out, it was too late for an abortion. They can't abort a pregnancy if it's passed 3 months. Why? I'm not sure, I've forgotten.
People do tend to bring these things upon themselves.
Odd Della Robia, has anything changed, or is everyone still in the same position that they were in about two weeks ago?

I was about to call the person who said no to an abortion a hippie...

She's in a coma and pregnant? Jeebus.

First off, SHE MIGHT HAVE BEEN DRUNK? How could she have been? What, her parents don't lock their liquor cabinet and give her $50 to go spend willynilly?

Secondly, Eighth grade. EIGHTH grade. My gods, what have we come to?

Thirdly, and I cannot emphasise this enough, what was she thinking?

I got nothing on this, seeing as all of my friends sustain abstinance, but this really is one heck of a mess she's in. Just support every descision she and her family make, and if they don't keep the baby, then I really hope it finds an adequate home with a good family.

[Jeremified offline]

By the time she found out, it was too late for an abortion. They can't abort a pregnancy if it's passed 3 months. Why? I'm not sure, I've forgotten.
People do tend to bring these things upon themselves.
Odd Della Robia, has anything changed, or is everyone still in the same position that they were in about two weeks ago?

Well, that's the last straw. There's only one choice now: adoption. In my opinon, it's the only way.

By the way, how old is this girl?