Friend problems, advice?

[Lyoko_Nerd offline]

Ok me and my bestest friend having troubles with another friend. She's getting on our nervous.
frist thing that botheres use, she thinks he house is EVERYWHERE,thinking that we also have drunks and drug users by our house, and she can never stay alone at my house cause of ym wedcam cause her mom doesn;t trust me.
second, this is her in a day. inuyasha this, have you seen the ep of inuyasha? inuyasha is sooo hot, and also its joe this joe that.
And i was talking about her crush right by her crush in math class, well me and this guy was asking did he know who she liked and everything and she geting all pi$$y at me for the rest of the day.
and last but not least, i think she was flirting with my boyfriend. We went cosmic bowling and when jazzi was bowling i would be sitting next to Eric and sam would be all quiet like, then when i went to bowl she would go over to him and talk, gigling, and such, i come back she scouts over for me or i'll sit on his lap and then she get quiet again. happened all night, oh yeah and hitting him,i trust him, but not her. grr im mad and the wrost thing, i was forced to share a locker with her T_T. So what should i do?

[oddsgrlfriend offline]

Ok don't know what to tell you about the house thing. But with the InuYasha problem I can help ((cuz I'm always talking about manga too lol)) just tell her that she might be a tiny bit obsessed and you honestly do not care about InuYasha. The 'joe this joe that' part, well it'll end eventually. Tell her if she likes him THAT much to suck it up and ask him out already! And about her getting mad when you talked about her crush by him - that's a BIG never-do-to-your-friend. Crushes are made to stay between the girls until the friend gets over him or gets a date with him. Flirting with your boyfriend could just be her way of getting revenge.

[Rail Runner offline]

the house thing...thats just weird..as far as for the boyfriend thing, it should pass...maybe she is just getting back at you for a bit. as far as for the other stuff...meh, she needs to cool it with the inuyasha stuff.

[Lyoko_Nerd offline]

she's liked joe for over a year. and he knows alreayd, not cause of me, and she can;t have a boyfriend until she's 16 and the flirting with my boyfriend happened before the math class thingy. and she talkes about my crush in frount of him before. and the inuyasha thing wont stop me and jazzi have told her, just shut up about inuyasha. and em and jazzi thinks she doesn't even like inuyasha she only does cause me and jazzi are into it.

[Rail Runner offline]

ahhh..well the last part shows that she is desperate for friends...imitation or saying that you like something is wanting to belong...yep.

so basically..she can dish out the flirting stuff..but when someone does it to her its unfair....riiiight..I see where that is headed.

and good job on telling her off on the inuyasha subject...if it persists..well..I really dont know what to tell you there.

[Lyoko_Nerd offline]

he said that 4 monthes ago, still none stop!!

[Rail Runner offline]

hmm...I wish I knew what else to tell you..either get her to calm down, or stop talking to her for a while and see if she changes any...otherwise she will just keep doing the same thing over and over.

[Lyoko_Nerd offline]

me too an dim happy now, she's going tog et a new locker out of mine- jumps up and down to joy-

[Rail Runner offline]

well..its a start

[Lyoko_Nerd offline]

i hope

[Rail Runner offline]

im guessing you cant do much about the classes you take with her...just do your best to ignore her if she gets crazy like that.

[Lyoko_Nerd offline]

she's mad at me and jazzi now cause we went into spencer's and she was wiht her grandma and she's not alowe din there. and she left.

[Rail Runner offline]

she has no right to be mad at you and jazzi...its a store that yall like, and yall have every right to go in there, if she isnt allowed by her parents or grandparents to go in there, tough luck...thats her problem, not you and jazzi's.

[Lyoko_Nerd offline]

i know but she's still going to be mad.

[Rail Runner offline]

hopefully she wont stay mad for too long.

[Lyoko SA80 offline]

Ok Idon't really understand half of want you said but my problem ok .Your friend need space .or some one to speak to her ok .I hope your group works it out .hope that helps you

[Lyoko_Nerd offline]

lol she told her mom about us going into the store, me and jazzi arn't allowed at her house.

[Rail Runner offline]

and thats a bad thing how?....

I mean I know she is sort of a friend...and I say sort of because of the way she is acting...but honestly...that is just rediculous.

[Lyoko_Nerd offline]

im glad she's gone-throws partly- and she wont talk to us tomorrow, you know how friends, at th emall. pretend to get rid f someone? well we did that and she got pi$$ed

[Rail Runner offline]

oh well..thats her loss...and funny at the same time.

[Lyoko_Nerd offline]

and now she was saying that the guy jazzi likes, likes sam, lol yeah right

[Lyoko SA80 offline]

Now that a waster .She not really a friend at all is she .get pissed is the worst thing to do at this point.I learn't the hard way

[Lyoko_Nerd offline]

today she didn't really avoid us but when we went to lunch she was a witch

[Rail Runner offline]

Honestly...it sounds like this girl is quickly distancing herself from yall...and my advice is honestly..not to be friends with her..it surely doesnt seem like she wants to be friends with yall.

[Lyoko SA80 offline]

Aye. I would take sti advice .Question is is she with friends when she is like is around you.