A negative bitter rant...aka the rant of a lonley guy.

[. offline]

Okay from what I understand when it comes to girls up means down and down means left.

So what I think is right, girls want a loving kind sweet gentlemen guy who would give the world for them is infact wrong.

Where as in reality girls want the guys that seems to not care about them.

Seeing as how it's my last year of highschool I'm gonna try the latter and just see what happens. If I end up with a girl I'm just gonna say I told you so.

-Piper

[LadyLucy offline]

THat's not always true...you just gotta find the right person. And high school? HA! I wouldn't date any of the people at my old school...college/older people are usually better, at least in my op. Don't give up hope...you'll find the right person. Belive me, if I did, anyone can.

[. offline]

THat's not always true...you just gotta find the right person. And high school? HA! I wouldn't date any of the people at my old school...college/older people are usually better, at least in my op. Don't give up hope...you'll find the right person. Belive me, if I did, anyone can.

Meh. I don't care, in all honesty, I'm more concerned with finding Ms. Right NOW then Ms. Right. It's highschool. I want a highschool relationship.

[Lola offline]

Yeah...its not cool to smother a girl with your feelings before she feels the same way for you. Then you just seem weird Girls like mutual feelings.

[Paige offline]

AHHH. Okay, I have some advice for you here dude.

Whatever you do, DON'T tell her you are in love with her like before you've asked her out, or even two months afterwards. It freaks them out.

Two examples here:

My friend [JUST a friend] Ian was at a homecoming dance that we had last week and I was having a fun time dancing with him, my friends, my date. And so I go to talk to some friends of mine across the room for a sec, and my date, Adam is on the other side of the room dancing with his best friend Max, and Ian went up to Adam, and they were talking and pointing [Ian was pointing] and they were looking at me. And so after Ian walks away from Adam, Adam goes up to me, and he's like, okay, that kid just told me he's in love with you Paige. And I thought Adam was just kidding, but really, he was not. I knew this because when I got home and I was checking out Ian's xanga, there was a LONG post of, I LOVE PAIGE over and over and over. And it freaked the crap out of me. I HAD a little crush on him before then, but after I realized JUST how much he liked me, it pretty much scared the feelings right out of me. I don't wanna be with a guy who is freakishly in love with me when I don't even think I'd be capable of loving him all that easily, or at least for a WHILE.

So that's one thing to avoid doing.

I was going out with this kid, Patrick, whom I had a mild - moderate crush on. And like... 2 months after going out with him, he looked at me, and he goes, "I love you Paige" This was after we were heavily making out though, so I could never tell if he just felt obligated to say that because I'd made him feel good, or if he really meant it. Well, anyways, I knew I didn't love him, but I said it back anyways, because that was what he was expecting. So after that, wealways said "I love you" to eachother, but it always felt like a lie. I should have been straight forward with him and told him I wasn't ready to tell him I loved him yet, but, I didn't.

So that's another thing to avoid. Girls AND boys.