Sister's Life affecting mine.

[Writing_Addict offline]

Hi, Who ever lives in Pennsylvania,Shohola PA,Milford Something....you might know what this is about if you've seen the Milford Magazine.

My sister (Whose name I'm not mentioning) was "touched" the wrong way when she was in...first or Second Grade by a name of a teacher "Mr. Matthews." What he's done to my sis mentally is heart wrenching. She goes to a physiologist because it's so bad.
Sometimes I hear her crying at night in her bed. Which is usually every week....it's so bad because she kept it a secret for a long time. She was 8 when it happened and told her secret at 13 years of age. She's 16 now.
I've never been to her trials, but I know their long. Because I stayed home alone til' 1:00 in the morning for them much more my sister. I feel so sorry for her. I'd like to hurt that man...SO FR**KING bad he won't live to his sentencing.

He's 80 now anyway...I think. He's done this to many other girls so it's just not my sister in court. I haven't been to it. And never will. So I stay home with my 10 year old sister. He's hurt so many peoples lives, but at least he hasn't done anything "rape" wise. *shudders*

I hope my sis makes it through. She's so mentally disturbed it's scaring me to think she'll become some crazy nut job that needs to go the "Happy House." Or she'll become one of those people who crying five million times a day.

*sighs*

[Gauntlet offline]

Just be there for her. I can kind of relate to how you feel about that.

My younger brother was diagnosed with Autism via vaccines, had about 9 shots given to him on his first day. The whole vaccine story is gonna be saved for another day. I lost my little brother, basically. Though he's changed over the years, he's never going to be the same.

So just be there for her. I know how hard it is to lose a loved one to something traumatic as that. Let her know you love her, and you're with her until the end.

I don't think you need any help understanding what I'm trying to say, and you probably already realized it off the bat.

[Writing_Addict offline]

Forgive Mr. Matthews as a person, but do not forgive his actions. To err is human; to forgive is divine.

It isn't me to forgive but which we have. But I mean why does this have to happen to the world..Espeacially to my sister..The world is a terrible and gifted place at the same time.

[Vora Lyoko offline]

She's still crying? Oh Aimee. I hope she makes it through. You have my sympathy.

[Rail Runner offline]

Im sorry to hear about this...Keep her close and just let her know that she is loved, and that she will be ok...I wish there was more I could say to help..but that is the best I can say for now.

[Lola offline]

ggggggggggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr LET ME AT HIM!!!!!!!!!

[Writing_Addict offline]

^^; I think he's going to jail, or somewhere else. Their going to court for sentencing I think in three weeks or more...and I have to babysit...AGAIN. But that's ok. My sister is getting slightly better.

It's nice to see her making jokes and smiling again. It's just nice to see her happy.

[Darkborn offline]

I had a substitute teacher who I would guess would to the same thing. He forcefully grabbed a girl's necklace, brought his face up to it really close and said "Oh that's a nice necklace". He was obviously looking down the girls shirt. He got fired. So. Don't think that your sister was the only one affected by stuff like this. It happens all the time.

[Writing_Addict offline]

I had a substitute teacher who I would guess would to the same thing. He forcefully grabbed a girl's necklace, brought his face up to it really close and said "Oh that's a nice necklace". He was obviously looking down the girls shirt. He got fired. So. Don't think that your sister was the only one affected by stuff like this. It happens all the time.

Wait...where exactly did this happen?

[Darkborn offline]

It happened at my school. Like 2 years ago.

[jym1 offline]

some years back (won't say how many) we had an exchange student stay with us. He came because he had had that same problem [as your sis], and he couldn't bare to stay in his home town where it happened. He was withdrawn, and didn't like to talk to anyone. do everything you can to make sure this doesn't become your sister. It's not too late

[Vora Lyoko offline]

some years back (won't say how many) we had an exchange student stay with us. He came because he had had that same problem [as your sis], and he couldn't bare to stay in his home town where it happened. He was withdrawn, and didn't like to talk to anyone. do everything you can to make sure this doesn't become your sister. It's not too late

She doesn't have any friends well mayone one friend. That lives a state away...but I hope she doesn't become that kind of person either.

I know because I'm JxA Addicts's neighbor and I help her and her sister get through all of this stuff.

[Writing_Addict offline]

Thanks Lanai...

EDIT: Ok, now my sister is sick with a virus and I'm more concerned than EVER. Oie all this stress is wracking my brain. By the end of this month I'll go nuts off a cliff.