Help

[lyokowarriorteen20010 offline]

Ok My Dad left us a year and some odd months ago and now he is back I keep trying to tell him how i fell and he says I got a attitude.. he acts as if nothing happened so he just expects my to act like it to I guess. I just don't know..Help.
~JD

[Kamekai offline]

Simply put, don't give in. Express your feelings to him. If he doesn't respect you enough to reason with you, you shouldn't respect him enough to pay attention to what he says either. I deal with stuff like this everyday, and I know how you feel. >_>

[Rail Runner offline]

Your father doesnt want to deal with what he has done, its as simple as that. Stand your ground, you deserve to be heard and listened to.

[JesusFreak offline]

Ok My Dad left us a year and some odd months ago and now he is back I keep trying to tell him how i fell and he says I got a attitude.. he acts as if nothing happened so he just expects my to act like it to I guess. I just don't know..Help.
~JD

That just incredibly immature of him. Like everyoen else says, this is a matter of the utmost importance to you, and you ahve the right to be heard.

[Phoenix Wolf offline]

Let me see, first of all your dad seem so irrisponsible, I say make him listen. He can't expect you to act like nothing happened because it did happen it was his mistake and he should own up to his own immiturity. Make your self heard, do not back down until he listens. He is the adult, he should start acting like one. Make your self heard do what ever you can think of well any thing that doesn't cause harm to you or anyone around you. Write down how you feel, if talking doesn't work. Let him know how you feel.

[Kamekai offline]

If he's anything like my Grandfather, you can't make him listen to anything you say. >_>

But yeah, like Billygirl siad, writing about stuff like this helps.

[Phoenix Wolf offline]

I write all the time and it sure helps make me feel better.