I Hate my sister

[matsumo itsu offline]

Hi i just need a place to rant, Im getting so p'd at my sister, everything i do is a mistake, she lets me on her WoW and she has this little combo if i mess it up she yells at me, if im on youtube while she plays WoW(Yes she is a WoW addict) i get yelled at, now want to hear something down right funny, one day nothing is on except for my light,and my tv, so nothing is taking up the internet, next thing i know she opens my door and makes it hit the wall in my room, than she yells get off the internet, and all thats on is my light and tv, so could someone please explain what could take up the internet, and like if my mom says i can have the last can of pop or last bit of ice cream next thing i know sister is yelling at me yet again, should i just like turn every thing off and just lie down and do nothing, i mean i want her to actually be happy of me and not constantly mad at me for no good reason.

p.s. Thank you for listening.

[Nightsabre offline]

Simple answer, get your own account. Doesn't you sibling know that it is against the EULA to share a account even with another sibling. It explicitly states that only the account own and one legal minor (minor as in child) may use the same account. You'd be surprise at how good Blizzard is at catching account sharing.

As for the other situations, tell your parents.

[Phoenix Wolf offline]

I agree with Nightsabre

[matsumo itsu offline]

she actually lets me on about twice a year, but i still dont see the reason i cant fight my own way on WoW, Oh and another thing to add to get p'd at her about i have my own deviant art. she found out about and i have a picture of me except i used like a censor type thing mostly to show off the censor and she yells at me, i mean you couldnt tell what hair color i have by it and i still get yelled at.

[DL offline]

Tell her to stop being so damn annoying, then give her the smackdown! But in all seriousness you need to be accepted as the alpha-male in that relationship. Got to be assertive! Maybe not violent but assertive nonetheless. Also if that fails, SMACKDOWN!

[matsumo itsu offline]

Kinda bit more difficult because our 7 year age difference, and plus my parents are almost always on her side it seems, my mom said she will tell my sister to stop but i dont see any change in how she acts near me, she acts like i killed one of her friends or something

[Bootch offline]

I found I had a very abrasive relationship with my older sister, she always seemed to have something to say about what i was doing ( or what my other sister was doing), always finding a flaw in what we thought or said and just generally wanting everything to be her way as she saw fit... she still does it, but I have come to find that as I grew older and grew into who I am i gave up on trying to find any sense and just attributed that to being just who she is.

Erm... tha point to my inane ramblings ( its in there somewhere) is that I don't let her have an impact on me. I take whatever she says and just sorta store it in a little drawer in the back of my mind, locked away outta the way.

I can't even begin to understand why she would act like that towards you right off the bat... it might seem like shes got some personal problem but that can't be the case... maybe its nothing more than a severe difference in opinions... and honestly, chances are youre never gonna see eye to eye perfectly... If shes the older sibling then she should be mature enough to understand this...

Im sorry I rambled and maybe most of this is just garbage, but its pretty damn hot where I am and I'm in a rambling mood...

[TheLQ offline]

If you have your own computer, set up an account on WoW with a different name than your sister knows. My brother knows that I'm quackstar but doesn't know I'm also Xana's Fist. This applies to other things as well. Make your password hard to guess and strong( i'm talking alpha-numeric with special characters here). Be sure to make it so that if your sister found out about your other account and your parents don't like the content, then make it so that you can delete it.

Also, if your sister is younger, be ASSERTIVE. Not too assertive, but show her who's the boss. If you can find a certian hold over your sister, then use it (I'm currently threatening my brother with hacking all of his accounts online). I would only use the latter one though if being assertive won't work. Threats, intimidation, and violence work best on younger siblings when you won't get in trouble with your parents.

[matsumo itsu offline]

Ya i got my own WoW account only a trial account, since my mom wont let me buy a full membership even if i pay for it, so im probably going to have to get it through my dad, and like i said earlier she is older so that wont work out to well

[Phoenix Wolf offline]

Just because she is older doesn't mean much, my sister is younger then me and she has many privilages. It is up to you and your sister to work things out.

[matsumo itsu offline]

oh i was half way reffering to Xana's fists comment. but now she is even bein worse, my mom heard her over the speaker(she was at college and she didnt know she was on speaker) and my mom said she would tell her to stop, so now about 4 months since my mom said she would talk with my sister, now she is actually starting to get verbal as in like "do you want to die early" or "you really want hit dont you" right in front of my parents and they just ignore it.

[TheLQ offline]

If it has escalated to that point, then you can probably assume that you won't get in that much trouble. Before i go any farther, i will point out that your parents don't care because they know she won't do it. If she said "You want to die?" with a butchers cleaver in her hands or said "You really want to get hit, don't you?" with boxing gloves, then your parents might take her a bit more seriously.

Now, i would say trying to find some kind of hold over her. If your sure that you won't get in trouble later, find out her WoW password (*cough* keylogger *cough*) then say if she pisses you off you'll change the password. Since I'm pretty sure that won't affect her that much, find online account passwords, like forums, and put those over her. Throw some blackmail in there if you can.

Also, just because she's older don't mean much. If you can show strength, broadcasting "Don't f**k with me" instead of "I won't do anything if you pick on me", that will help somewhat. All of these methods won't get her completely off your back, but will help.

Of course there are other ways to accomplish your goal, so take my advice lightly.

[Bootch offline]

Now, i would say trying to find some kind of hold over her. If your sure that you won't get in trouble later, find out her WoW password (*cough* keylogger *cough*) then say if she pisses you off you'll change the password. Since I'm pretty sure that won't affect her that much, find online account passwords, like forums, and put those over her. Throw some blackmail in there if you can.

Also, just because she's older don't mean much. If you can show strength, broadcasting "Don't f**k with me" instead of "I won't do anything if you pick on me", that will help somewhat. All of these methods won't get her completely off your back, but will help.

Of course there are other ways to accomplish your goal, so take my advice lightly.

All im gonna say about this is that there is a high possibility of making things worse... at the same time it could make things better as your sister could respond to this kind of approach, but in my experience it never seems to work out as planned... Id be very careful about this...

[Malkmusian offline]

Love your sister as you would your friend.