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xiaozanghou wrote:Hate to break it to you, but four months isn't nearly enough time to completely know a person. Don't let being head over heels overly color your perceptions. If you want to get a real idea of what being married to her will be like, you need to experience living alone with her first, and that probably won't happen until you're out of school.
TheLQ wrote:Since talking on a forum isn't exactly the most encouraging advice (or in some cases the best one), try talking to an adult that you would trust not to tell. It can be a school counselor, family friend, friend's parent, or even relative. They can offer the best advice that has the highest chance of being listened to.
Stonecreek wrote:I miss the boob bots. At least they were peddling something I have interest in...
matsumo itsu wrote:hey guys getting mostly all the responses I was imagining. I say mostly because Jym you gave my favorite answer, not just because it is against the crowd and most beliefs but because you believe that it is in fact a good idea to marry early to learn the other person better in a sort.
Early marriages usually backfire big time.matsumo itsu wrote:I say mostly because Jym you gave my favorite answer, not just because it is against the crowd and most beliefs but because you believe that it is in fact a good idea to marry early to learn the other person better in a sort.
Lani wrote:Eh, in the end, people (real or cartoon) are naked and having a good time. What's wrong with that?
MY85 wrote:Early marriages usually backfire big time.matsumo itsu wrote:I say mostly because Jym you gave my favorite answer, not just because it is against the crowd and most beliefs but because you believe that it is in fact a good idea to marry early to learn the other person better in a sort.
jym1 wrote:MY85 wrote:Early marriages usually backfire big time.matsumo itsu wrote:I say mostly because Jym you gave my favorite answer, not just because it is against the crowd and most beliefs but because you believe that it is in fact a good idea to marry early to learn the other person better in a sort.
I wasn't making it up, I have many real life examples that I know of personally. Both young, and (now) middle aged couples.
But what I wasn't advocating is getting married too young (even though the truth is that most of the people I know did get married fairly young).
Every decision has to be made on a case by case basis. If it's not right for you, than don't do it just because one person doesn't agree with the crowd (I didn't say I agree with you, only that I don't agree with the crowd).
Obviously the other members here know you better than I do, and can judge what's better for you
knifey wrote:If you're going to wait five years until you get married, why don't you just discuss the subject of marriage four years later?
matsumo itsu wrote:tekirai I am cruel? I gave the time 5 years meaning I am giving it time to see how it goes, I was just noting the mere amazement in jyms post! so don't call me a horrible person. And NOWHERE did I say "HOORAY ONE PERSON AGREES WITH ME, SURELY THIS PLAN IS PERFECT!!" those words never even entered my brain to any extent, I understand it's early and I know if we did get married lets say for example purposes tomorrow I know that it'd be to early and would not go say I do, I don't plan on saying that until I have a job to support us both. So don't even pretend to know my thought pattern.
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