i need your help

[101sissyhater offline]

I was being bullied at school. I told my parents who told the school. The bullies got in trouble and la-dee-da-da. Well i was listening to one of the bulls (my word for bully) and heard that they are planning revenge on ME! I am so freakin scared.

101 says: Hey Erynn ever thought of making a counseling part of the forum? I think it would be popular.

[Star Way]

I would recommend telling someone, just in case... What kind of bullying were they doing before?

If you're really worried you can always tell your school councillor (sp?) about it and they'll get in on the action ASAP.

(And no, I haven't thought about adding a 'help!' forum, as a matter of fact... but you guys seem to like to post your problems here. I'll think about it. ^^)

[Ransomed_Heart offline]

My Huddle training will be useful for once....

First off, I am in complete agreement with Erynn. Tell someone, even if you're not positve the bullies will try something. Your parents, or I'd say the school guidance councilor.

And since those people may not be around all the time...
1) Stay in a group, or at least with one other person. They're less likely to come after you if you're not alone.
2)Keep your head up and shoulders back. Don't walk around like you're afraid of your own skin, you're an easier target if you already look scared and defenseless. Keep a firm handle on your body language!
3) If they do come after you, look them in the eyes and talk to them in a firm voice. Act confident and you are less easily victimized.
4) If they are picking on you verbally, then turn the situation to your advantage. Turn their insults into compliments, agree with things they say that might be true, and use humor against them. All those things will take the steam right out of what they are trying to do, and odds are they will give up if they think it's not affecting you.

[SamBlob offline]

RH has the right idea.

I, OTOH, was going to say something really inappropriate...

[Little Vili offline]

I was being bullied at school. I told my parents who told the school. The bullies got in trouble and la-dee-da-da. Well i was listening to one of the bulls (my word for bully) and heard that they are planning revenge on ME! I am so freakin scared.

101 says: Hey Erynn ever thought of making a counseling part of the forum? I think it would be popular.

Wait, I though you were going to get transfered to a new school.

[MY85 offline]

I'm gonna be kinda cruel, given the situation, but... you're f***ed. After all, I hated school a lot. Unlike other who were crying because of the last day, i was happy all the thing has come to an end, although not the way I wanted (half my prom dead, at least). I better shut up now. but then, we don't live the same life. I don't think they're going to kill you, since you're a girl.

(And no, I haven't thought about adding a 'help!' forum, as a matter of fact... but you guys seem to like to post your problems here. I'll think about it. ^^)

Wouldn't be a bad idea. But then, all the problems would be solved.

[DL offline]

wouldn't all the problems being solved be a good thing? oh and about your situation...I have to agree with Rodri 100%. It won't be fun when they get arround to it but if they are real men you will be fine. Cause a real man wouldn't beat up a girl. But if they are girls you are in hot water. sorry I have no advice about this...hope you can take a punch, it will make it less painful nd if you can't dont' think about the pain it helps... trust me

[Little Vili offline]

You cant just assume that guys wont always not beat up girls...though it is rare at this age as far as I know. But none the less, it still happens. The best thing to do would be to tell the proper authorities, most likely, they will come up with a solution. And not to drive more fear into you...but just hope they dont carry grudges for very long.

Sorry I dont know the situation 100%, I only skimmed what you said. When it comes to long threads, I cant seem to read them at a slow pace. With my time constrained, I always feel like im in a rush. I'd be able to offer better advice if/when I go read it.

[SamBlob offline]

You cant just assume that guys wont always not beat up girls...though it is rare at this age as far as I know. But none the less, it still happens. The best thing to do would be to tell the proper authorities, most likely, they will come up with a solution. And not to drive more fear into you...but just hope they dont carry grudges for very long.

Sorry I dont know the situation 100%, I only skimmed what you said. When it comes to long threads, I cant seem to read them at a slow pace. With my time constrained, I always feel like im in a rush. I'd be able to offer better advice if/when I go read it.

If you don't read details, don't offer advice. Offering advice without looking at the details can be disasterous.

[Razputin Nein offline]

Cause a real man wouldn't beat up a girl.

This annoys me so much. Who cares what sex it is, people shouldn't hurt other people in the first place.

Edit: woah, i ment shouldn't. not should.

[MY85 offline]

Cause a real man wouldn't beat up a girl.

This annoys me so much. Who cares what sex it is, people should hurt other people in the first place.

As Vili said, it happens. It's not correct for a man to hit a woman, unless there's a very good reason for doing it (serious revenge, mostly IMO) and in case of defending yourself from getting murdered.

[101sissyhater offline]

I was being bullied at school. I told my parents who told the school. The bullies got in trouble and la-dee-da-da. Well i was listening to one of the bulls (my word for bully) and heard that they are planning revenge on ME! I am so freakin scared.

101 says: Hey Erynn ever thought of making a counseling part of the forum? I think it would be popular.

Wait, I though you were going to get transfered to a new school.

It's called my parents changed their minds. i told them what happened. they say they won't do anything the usual (|2@[]D.
101 says: OMG!!!! I forgot 101 says!!!!!!!! thansk RoDrInCuBuS for reminding me.

[MY85 offline]

Sorry to hear that, 101. You seem so sad about it, you even forgot to put "101 says" on your last post. :S *hugs*

[DL offline]

wow this stinks...you should really tell someone that will help like the school or something...really sorry about what is going on...wish I could do more but I can't...sorry hope everything works out

[101sissyhater offline]

well as it turns out the reason they hated me was because the teacher who my dad told said that they STUFFED me in a locker. but i got that squared away. i am still stuck at KSMS (my school intials) and not at TCA.

101says: thanks for caring

[DarkestSoul X21 offline]

I was being bullied at school. I told my parents who told the school. The bullies got in trouble and la-dee-da-da. Well i was listening to one of the bulls (my word for bully) and heard that they are planning revenge on ME! I am so freakin scared.

101 says: Hey Erynn ever thought of making a counseling part of the forum? I think it would be popular.

I know how you feel, i get bullied everyday. I with you man