girl help please

[oddsbrother1992 offline]

well i like this girl at school and well i'm not the most popular person and well lately this girl lets call alex really like's me and i'v always liked her and no one new about expedt me and i want to ask her out and the reason i know she like's me is she wants me to sit next to her or she come sits with me and allways is very polite to me and stays waiting for her sis she say's bye to me so on monday i want to ask her out then but i'm really neveres what should i do.

[gaveup06 offline]

DOnt get nervous It is natural write a letter or just wait until she talks to you about a realtionship or you can just ask as soon as it comes to your mind. that is the best thing to do girls like guy that are straight forward. I hope that helps.

[oddsbrother1992 offline]

thanks i'm very nervous

[oddsbrother1992 offline]

Never been lucky enough to be in a relationship myself - but it sounds like you and 'alex' have a connection already and that base is crucial.

I agree with gaveup - send her a letter, because in a letter you can prepare what you want to say in advance and you won't stutter with nervousness or fear - it might be an idea to include a small present with the letter, like a box of chocolates or some flowers.

One thing I do not recommend though is a pink, disc-shaped necklace (;)).

If she still shows interest then GO YOU! A small date might be the next good idea, perhaps to the cinema to see Harry Potter 4, or better yet a rom-com.

Like I said, I've never been in a relationship so this is hardly Golden Advice, my underlying suggestion is to follow your heart.

Good luck friend!

thanks

[DeadViolet offline]

im a girl, so i can help. id recommed a poem.

[Stephen (x1)]

well i like this girl at school and well i'm not the most popular person and well lately this girl lets call alex really like's me and i'v always liked her and no one new about expedt me and i want to ask her out and the reason i know she like's me is she wants me to sit next to her or she come sits with me and allways is very polite to me and stays waiting for her sis she say's bye to me so on monday i want to ask her out then but i'm really neveres what should i do.

Some things you can do.

I. Learn better english. We mods are serious about enforcing the newest rule. Erika, you too should follow this rule.

Now for the real help.

II. Just simply ask her, that's the best way!..."Hey, I was wondering...Do you wanna go somewhere with me on, say, Friday? We could go to a movie or something. Who knows, it could be really fun!"

[xLyOkO mAsTeRx offline]

For me, I would just walk up to her and start talking to her like you probably could normally do. If you can handle that, then just bring it up as a sort of surprise to her. That's what I would like instead of someone coming up to me and asking me out right then. It would make me feel that they were just trying to get a date in the first place.

[Odd-Like-Me offline]

It's pretty obvios to me she likes you. good luck

[xLyOkO mAsTeRx offline]

It's pretty obvios to me she likes you. good luck

Add me to that good luck!

[Paige offline]

I think I know what to do in this situation. well basically everyone has already said some very great and useful advice. what I'd do, is make sure that when you talk to her, things don't get all awkward. and sometimes, it's just better to stay friends. but if you can keep a relationship where i's like your friends except i dunno your more intimate, well thats the best for me i think. just make it an easy relationship. and forget about the other girl, this one wants you and you want her. this girl will probably be better than the other one anyways. Just keep it real, kid. i know you'll get it right if you put your heart and mind to it.