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Postby Shi_Min_Xi » Mon May 29, 2006 12:22 am

Okay..So not the best of topic tittles but that's what I'm feeling right now.

Okay here's the shorten (coughnotreallycough) version of the whole story:

This is my first year at my school. Being normal shy me, I was like wandering around aimlessly in that school. So something happened and I met this chinese kid and his friend who were both very into manga/anime and what not. We become friends. From there I made more and more friends. Let's call the chinese one, "A". Call his friend, "B" and call this other important friend of ours "C".

"A" is a *curseword* hypocrite! He claims that we all give him attiudes and when it's clearly him giving it to us in the first place. He REFUSES to listen to what we have to say but we have to listen to everything he says and on the rare occasion that he does listen to us, he either misinterprets it or takes it as an insult or just makes fun of us with it. He makes the worst jokes because they're either; Not funny, Insults us, Makes him superior, or are racist. He also likes to be superior. He treats us all like we're inferior to him (which we're not at all). He has gotten on everyone's nerves.

"B" is a weakling compared to A. B can NOT stand up on his own against A and will do everything A tells him to.

C is a friend of ours who, like me, hates A's guts. He is on my side in this "war" and pretends to be on A's side.

Throughout this WHOLE YEAR, A and I have been getting into a lot of arguments. Arguments over the stupidest things! Our last one was that I was talking with C and we were "ignoring" A. Because of these arguments, A and I have had a rocky friendship which involved periods of time where we would refuse to talk to each other and ignore each other. This has happened so much that none of our other friends can keep up with it.

I can not put up with him anymore! The most annoying part about it is that he's a hypocrite and he has a stuck-up attitude. I need advice on how to handle him before I physically harm him....
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The sky greets those who fly,I don't fear of being controlled/The dazzling brightness that I aspire for is to change everything/I cannot forgive anyone, where can I go?

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Postby codeTONY » Mon May 29, 2006 2:28 am

Ah. There's a simple solution:

A² + B² = C²

Sorry, couldn't help myself.

I've had friends like A, so I know what that can be like. Don't know what to tell you, but losing a friend is not the right answer most of the time. However, if it gets out of hand, there's no worth trying. Some people are too power hungry, and always think they're right. Nothing you can really do about that.
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Postby The BB of C » Mon May 29, 2006 11:19 am

The solution to this is easy. Just don't hang out with more than one of them at the same time. It's more than obvious that when you get yourself, and one of your friends, and another one of them together, the outcome is never good.
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Postby Tom Bone » Mon May 29, 2006 12:31 pm

wartonchan wrote:Awesome! ANZ pride!

Well, unless you and "A" can reach an agreement on what to talk about and what not, then the best solution is to not be friends with "A" and be glad with what you have, "C".

Hope this helps!

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Postby . » Mon May 29, 2006 1:06 pm

He sounds like a bully. You know what you do to bullies? Punk 'em out, then ya beat 'em up.

But then again thats just me, and thankfully i've never had to do the second. ^.^
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Postby Shi_Min_Xi » Wed May 31, 2006 4:11 pm

Thanks guys. I'll keep those in mind.

Today we had elections for next year's class officers. A was running for president and through a whole mix of deadlines, late applications blah blah blah...He became the ONLY PERSON RUNNING for president. So he AUTOMATCIALLY BECAME PRESIDENT. Now this wouldn't be as bad but now he goes off BRAGGING on how he 'won' the whole election and all that other stuff. <.< >.> (On a brigther note, C became Vice President. Yay for C! XD)

Also, today he was talking to B. Here's what I got from their conversation.

B: On what grounds are you and (I'll go under SMX) SMX standing on?
A: I don't care about him anymore. He's done it before and now he's doing it again! Last time I was the bigger man and made up but this time I'm not doing that.
B: Really...? (sarcastically) What did he do this time? (interested tone)

*I missed this whole part thanks to an annoying classmate...*

A: I'm waiting for an apology.

That was it.

Later I confronted well...more like found B and asked him the same question he asked A. Here's what he said.

B: Listen, just go and apologize to him
SMX: What can I say! There's NOTHING to apologize for. Wait...What did he tell you happened this time?
B: Well he said, that you're hanging out with a new group of people and bad-talking about him behind his back.
SMX: Wth! Here listen to what I have to say. I don't care you believe me or not but just hear me out. He hates me because apparntly I was talking to C and we were ignoring the ever-so important A. Bad-talking behind his back? Hello! Wake up dufus. They all agree with me and add stuff of their own. Besides wouldn't you've heard of it if I was doing it like majorly?
B: True. But you know him he won't believe that.

The rest of the conversation goes on like this for a while...

Also I heard this from another friend:

Friend: He's telling everyone to not talk to you because apparently you're an "evil" person. But seriously, none of us are believing the whacko. I'm sure you can tell...

A is getting really annoying by now.

Yea...Just needed to rant that out...xDD
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