Son Vs. Father.

[The BB of C offline]

I usually just tell my dad to shut his mouth, but that probably won't work for you. I, for one, am a pacifest. Try to seek an answer in a calm and peacful way.

Last time I tried that.........I will say no more.

And 101Sissyhater, we've taken him to church before. All he does is just stand there and keeps his mouth shut during the songs, and does the bible stuff but learns bothing.

We have prayed for him so many times though.

JEREMIEFIED, the last time we took him to counseling he tried playing mind games with the counselor and then he and my mom got kicked out!

Have you suggested to your mother simply not letting him in your house under no sircumstances?

Don't worry. We Christians don't use violence to solve anything.

I'm a pretty Christian man. But do you want to know how many people I simply destroy in order to get them off of my back? There's also the crusades to consider. So saying that we don't use violence to solve anything is pretty inaccurate.

[Crazy_For_Christ. offline]

Have you suggested to your mother simply not letting him in your house under no sircumstances?

Hello? Have you even read the posts before? He is abusive!!!!! He has to get his way, or else. My mom has already got an attorney to divorce him, but she is starting to forget about their about to happen divorce!

And 101sissyhater, he plays mindgames. The last restraining order was cut off from my mom, because my dad tricked her into doing it. I have been asking my mom about changing the door knobs so many times, but she keeps saying no.

[The BB of C offline]

I'm out of possible solutions for now.

[Taelia offline]

I had the same problems with my dad years ago, and now my brother is being such a lazy*ss.

[. offline]

Don't give us that. He's abusive? Tell your mom to get her behind in gear than and do whats right for you and your siblings and get the heck away from him. Get his way or else? It's called a restraining order.

[The BB of C offline]

All of that is pending, ThePepsiPiper. His mother went back to college to get the money for a divorce and all that.

[Chosen_one offline]

Submit your situation to Chicken Soup for the Soul; maybe that'll shock somebody to do something about it.

And maybe try to get your dad sent to jail?

My main advice would be to try to get physical help from an adult. Abusive parents don't listen to kids; that's why they're so abusive. They tend to think that kids are inferior, so probably only an adult can do anything about them. I suggest contacting... someone very powerful.

[. offline]

All of that is pending, ThePepsiPiper. His mother went back to college to get the money for a divorce and all that.

But in the mean time is letting her children stay with an abusive man? Yeah, something a bit odd to about that.

[DeadViolet offline]

I say your momma divorce him imediatly.