Feeling depressed...

[Jeremified offline]

I've been feeling depressed lately. It's been over this entire school year...

For starters, I have all of 3 friends. Two at school, one at my FORMER neighborhood- I had to move away from him. Now I just learned that one of my friends from school isn't coming back next year. So that means that I'll have all of one friend to see. And back in Virginia (my hometown in which I lived for 10 years), I had dozens of friends! Literally, I can name one dozen right now! (But I won't.) And we had to move away from there all because of some stupid job offer my dad accepted because it was both profitable and it meant that we would live closer to the rest of our family. And that's ok, but I moved away from my entire life! Seriously, I can't even chat with my VA friends much anymore...
Second, I feel as if everyone at my school is turning racist against me. I'll say this once for you guys: I'm part Mexican. Sometimes I think the reason I'm picked on at school a lot is because I look Hispanic (I have a moustache, also). I have at least two bullies at school, and everybody else thinks of me as a lower-class student. I'm always picked last in sports, no one ever picks me as my partner during activities, and 90% of the time I have to work alone. Even my "friends" don't pick me. When we were doing group projects, three of my friends got grouped together. There was a maximum of four per group. Now this is the really saddening part... when I tried to get in, one of them actually pushed me away and pulled in another kid! I had to go to an all-girls group. I hate it when that happens because they just talk TALK TALK! I feel so alone when these things happen.
Also, we have an exchange student in my class. At first, I thought I'd have a chance to make a new friend. So, being the kind person I (usually) am, I decided to hang out with him and make him feel welcome. Well, things went downhill from there. I decided to be with him during partnered activites, eat lunch with him, you know... all the things that help out a new kid at a new school. He actually turned on me! Yeah, specifically on me! I mean, I never did anything at all to him, and suddenly, he's a total jerk! I feel so frustrated that I tried to welcome him, and then he'd just dump me. I don't understand! I'm just another kid! What is it about me that drives others away?

I need help with this, you guys. You're the only ones who accept me, aside from my family, obviously.

[lyokodragoness offline]

An example of racisim in the modern world. It's happening everywhere nowadays...

..Seriously! Just because you look different doesn't mean others have to reject you. Your FRIENDS turned you down! That's cruel. You attempted to be friendly and help the new kid, and he turns you down. That's insensitive.

I don't understand racisim. I guess the modern people of today want EVERYONE to be the exact same. Such Hitler-clones...

No one understands that personality, and not appearance, matters. That's why I enjoy chatting online more than IRL - You speak with your mind, not your appearance. No pressure, or fear of being rejected...

I say, do something that will prove you're cool. You're a normal person and you want to be treated right. Do something heroic, brave, smart.. make others realize that even though you don't look like most people, you can stand out and be appriciated.

[Skiiran Lord offline]

....Alright, what? No, there is no normal. Normal is a word used by so-called popular people to describe their utopian Hitler clones. If anything, normal is different, and vice versa.

I can understand the bits about racism though. It's bad, and I mean REALLY bad. There's this kid in English who, at least once a day, turns to me and says "Ireland sucks" (I'm about 1/4 Irish). 'Scuse me, but I was fairly certain I was the only one at school exactly 1/4 Irish. That means, according to him, 1/4 of my Heritage that he knows about only through me sucks. No, thar be somethin' wrong there.

I'd blame President Reagan or perhaps Margaret Thatcher on that bit.

Acceptance is the word of the day, here. Not anything weird like diversity, which in itself is used in a slightly racist tone, but acceptance. If people can't accept who you are and how your brain works, well then maybe they shouldn't be your friends.

[The BB of C offline]

An example of racisim in the modern world. It's happening everywhere nowadays...

..Seriously! Just because you look different doesn't mean others have to reject you. Your FRIENDS turned you down! That's cruel. You attempted to be friendly and help the new kid, and he turns you down. That's insensitive.

I don't understand racisim. I guess the modern people of today want EVERYONE to be the exact same. Such Hitler-clones...

No one understands that personality, and not appearance, matters. That's why I enjoy chatting online more than IRL - You speak with your mind, not your appearance. No pressure, or fear of being rejected...

I say, do something that will prove you're cool. You're a normal person and you want to be treated right. Do something heroic, brave, smart.. make others realize that even though you don't look like most people, you can stand out and be appriciated.

Yes, you must do something that will prove that you are really cool. This fact is without a doubt to us. How are you going to make it without a doubt visible to your peers? You can do it. But feelilng too depressed about it can get in your way. Perk up a little bit and know that you're better than they make you out to be. People used to do the same thing to me, so I know. Do you want any other suggestions?

[Tom Bone offline]

Racism; the downfall of our society...First of all, tell yer guidence counceler. if that doesn't help, I'm always here to talk.

[4lpha0mega offline]

Well i can understand the social situation because i was in a simalar situation a few years ago, and basically since then i've got a lot better at football and running, which helped because if the team captains are any good, then they'll pick people good at sport, not people that they like. Also i found some freinds a lot more like me, which are now some of my best freinds.

As for the racist part, one of my freinds is black/half-cast but there's no (serious) racism here, why dont you try being proud of being half-mexican? Stand up for yourself if no-one else if going to...

[strok3d offline]

At my school i get teased becuase they think i am gay and i have no friends either! I moved just like you. But enough about me. To help you. Hmmmmm well keep in touch so you can have at least some friends. I wish people could accept other people for who they are.

[YDV offline]

Aww, Jeremified! *hugs*

Well, remember, you always have plenty of friends here.

Ugh... I hate it when people are like that. Seriously. And that exchange student? Totally an unappreciative bastard. I mean, even if you really don't like someone (I dunno why he wouldn't like you), you should at -least- pretend that you're thankful for their help. I mean, honestly, if it weren't for you, he would've just been dumped there all by himself. Cold. Hearted.

And don't worry, people who don't like you just because of your race or ethnicity aren't worth your time anyway. I wish I could do something to help ya... just take my advice and stick with people who like you for who you are (I did... I still only have like, a grand total of 4-5 friends at school depending on the weather, but I know most of them like me because of my personality, not what I look like or anything.)

If you ever need someone to talk to, PM me or something. ^^

[Tom Bone offline]

Yeah, YD's right; you may not have many friends at school, but you can always talk to us (LF members join hands and stands in a circle). At least one of us will always be here for you *hugs*

[Tekirai offline]

On top of sectarianism and 'So and so's gay!' rumours (happens too often in my school for my liking, I always think it's a load of s***), I can't stand racisim. Makes me sick to the stomach, etc...

The world these days has too much rudeness. I'd try getting back on your friends' side again- like if they're having trouble with something, try helping them out. They might say 'push off' or just think you're trying to make friends, but make it seem like you're not, and slowly they might be nicer to you.

Or you can just be a loner like me and do whatever the hell you like, but I wouldn't do it...just remember about your real friends here at LF rather than those lifeless jerks and ignore any insults and you should be fine in no time! We're all here for you and you know it. ;3

[KayLenny#7 offline]

I personally have been through some of that "being dumped by friends" buisness. It's not fun, but keep in mind: Who's the better person in this? Certainly not those who outcast you. As long as you put out the effort to be a kind and friendly person, self satisfaction can help you keep it together. ^^

[The BB of C offline]

Self satisfaction is one of three keys to happiness.

[Jeremified offline]

lyokodragoness and The BB of C: I'd try doing something super-heroic, but there's a downside to all this. If I make it, I gain one point in the struggle. If I don't, I lose three. And usually the heroic deeds are by physical means, not intellect, so I'm as sunk as a Titanic made of solid plutonium, considering my strength.

Tom Bone: No counseling. Not again. I already had it once for the whole part about moving from VA, and it was SO boring that I almost cried. Sorry, but I'm not going there again! >.>

4lpha0mega: Well, I would, but... people would most likely laugh at me for even trying to look cool. "O PLZ, JUST LOOK AT DAT PATHETIC D00D OVA THERE. HE'S SOME FREAKIN MEXICAN TRYIN 2 ACT KOOL." I'd here that the majority of the time. Thanks for the support, though.

strok3d: I heard about the moving part in your rant; I sympathize with you.

YDV: *accepts hug* Thanks! ^^ I appreciate your sympathy for me. And all of you! You're, like, anti-clones of everybody at my school!

Tekirai: Yeah, I occasionally get the "gay" remarks at my school. Not that common, but it happens, believe me. And about trying to get my friends back on my side... that's what I've been trying to do for a year and a half by now, and just this week they told me to go find another lunch table.

Numbuh 7: Thanks for the advice a ton! I'll try and remember that for the 8th grade...

The BB of C (last post): K, so what are the other two?

Everybody: THANK YOU SO MUCH for being so kind-hearted! As I told YDV, you guys are literally anti-clones of my schoolmates! I really feel that this is my only and last resort, so I can't even express how thankful I am.

[The BB of C offline]

Then find the one person that makes fun of you the most, and simply destroy him. If all else fails, take that guy, and lay his unconsious body flat on the ground for the whole school to see what you do to the people who won't quit.

[Jeremified offline]

Then find the one person that makes fun of you the most, and simply destroy him. If all else fails, take that guy, and lay his unconsious body flat on the ground for the whole school to see what you do to the people who won't quit.

If I wanted to get expelled, by all means, I'd do that. However, I'm an A- student, so... no thanks.

[The BB of C offline]

Do as you wish. It's an even trade. Keep your grades and continue in the situation you were complaining about in the first post, or be expelled for a few days and earn your respect back. It's completely your choice at this point.

[Skiiran Lord offline]

I wouldn't WANT to be respected by those people, to be honest.

[Admiral Conqueror offline]

If your current friends act like that, then I don't see why they're even considered "friends." They seem to be acting more like the bullies to me instead of friends. Those are some weird "friends."

I suggest you try to ignore all of those strange kids for now, and try finding some new friends to hang out with. If you can't find any new friends, then just wait awhile. Eventually, you'll be able to make some friends. Also, your current "friends" and bullies shouldn't keep doing what they're doing if you don't show any reactions to their actions. At least that's what I think will happen.

Another thing you should try is talking to your "friends." If you mention how they've been treating you recently, then maybe they'll change their behavior towards you. Hopefully, for the better.

I hope I helped, Jeremified.

[. offline]

Then find the one person that makes fun of you the most, and simply destroy him. If all else fails, take that guy, and lay his unconsious body flat on the ground for the whole school to see what you do to the people who won't quit.

If I wanted to get expelled, by all means, I'd do that. However, I'm an A- student, so... no thanks.

seeing as how you probbly are a good kid, A student and this would be your first offense you'd probbly get away with it.

[The BB of C offline]

Yes! The "Seeminly Good Kid Gets Off on Good Reputation with the Teachers" bail! That's helped me so many times!

[flare offline]

I've been feeling depressed lately. It's been over this entire school year...

For starters, I have all of 3 friends. Two at school, one at my FORMER neighborhood- I had to move away from him. Now I just learned that one of my friends from school isn't coming back next year. So that means that I'll have all of one friend to see. And back in Virginia (my hometown in which I lived for 10 years), I had dozens of friends! Literally, I can name one dozen right now! (But I won't.) And we had to move away from there all because of some stupid job offer my dad accepted because it was both profitable and it meant that we would live closer to the rest of our family. And that's ok, but I moved away from my entire life! Seriously, I can't even chat with my VA friends much anymore...
Second, I feel as if everyone at my school is turning racist against me. I'll say this once for you guys: I'm part Mexican. Sometimes I think the reason I'm picked on at school a lot is because I look Hispanic (I have a moustache, also). I have at least two bullies at school, and everybody else thinks of me as a lower-class student. I'm always picked last in sports, no one ever picks me as my partner during activities, and 90% of the time I have to work alone. Even my "friends" don't pick me. When we were doing group projects, three of my friends got grouped together. There was a maximum of four per group. Now this is the really saddening part... when I tried to get in, one of them actually pushed me away and pulled in another kid! I had to go to an all-girls group. I hate it when that happens because they just talk TALK TALK! I feel so alone when these things happen.
Also, we have an exchange student in my class. At first, I thought I'd have a chance to make a new friend. So, being the kind person I (usually) am, I decided to hang out with him and make him feel welcome. Well, things went downhill from there. I decided to be with him during partnered activites, eat lunch with him, you know... all the things that help out a new kid at a new school. He actually turned on me! Yeah, specifically on me! I mean, I never did anything at all to him, and suddenly, he's a total jerk! I feel so frustrated that I tried to welcome him, and then he'd just dump me. I don't understand! I'm just another kid! What is it about me that drives others away?

I need help with this, you guys. You're the only ones who accept me, aside from my family, obviously.

I have a pretty simialar problem.......im sorry you have to put up with that *shakes head* thank god im moving at the end of the year.........

[KayLenny#7 offline]

Then find the one person that makes fun of you the most, and simply destroy him. If all else fails, take that guy, and lay his unconsious body flat on the ground for the whole school to see what you do to the people who won't quit.

If I wanted to get expelled, by all means, I'd do that. However, I'm an A- student, so... no thanks.

seeing as how you probbly are a good kid, A student and this would be your first offense you'd probbly get away with it.

That's true! I get away with everything.

[. offline]

Then find the one person that makes fun of you the most, and simply destroy him. If all else fails, take that guy, and lay his unconsious body flat on the ground for the whole school to see what you do to the people who won't quit.

If I wanted to get expelled, by all means, I'd do that. However, I'm an A- student, so... no thanks.

seeing as how you probbly are a good kid, A student and this would be your first offense you'd probbly get away with it.

That's true! I get away with everything.

but your a sweet little angel not causing mischeif rrrrriiiiigggggghhhhtttttt? ^.^

[Jeremified offline]

I've been feeling depressed lately. It's been over this entire school year...

For starters, I have all of 3 friends. Two at school, one at my FORMER neighborhood- I had to move away from him. Now I just learned that one of my friends from school isn't coming back next year. So that means that I'll have all of one friend to see. And back in Virginia (my hometown in which I lived for 10 years), I had dozens of friends! Literally, I can name one dozen right now! (But I won't.) And we had to move away from there all because of some stupid job offer my dad accepted because it was both profitable and it meant that we would live closer to the rest of our family. And that's ok, but I moved away from my entire life! Seriously, I can't even chat with my VA friends much anymore...
Second, I feel as if everyone at my school is turning racist against me. I'll say this once for you guys: I'm part Mexican. Sometimes I think the reason I'm picked on at school a lot is because I look Hispanic (I have a moustache, also). I have at least two bullies at school, and everybody else thinks of me as a lower-class student. I'm always picked last in sports, no one ever picks me as my partner during activities, and 90% of the time I have to work alone. Even my "friends" don't pick me. When we were doing group projects, three of my friends got grouped together. There was a maximum of four per group. Now this is the really saddening part... when I tried to get in, one of them actually pushed me away and pulled in another kid! I had to go to an all-girls group. I hate it when that happens because they just talk TALK TALK! I feel so alone when these things happen.
Also, we have an exchange student in my class. At first, I thought I'd have a chance to make a new friend. So, being the kind person I (usually) am, I decided to hang out with him and make him feel welcome. Well, things went downhill from there. I decided to be with him during partnered activites, eat lunch with him, you know... all the things that help out a new kid at a new school. He actually turned on me! Yeah, specifically on me! I mean, I never did anything at all to him, and suddenly, he's a total jerk! I feel so frustrated that I tried to welcome him, and then he'd just dump me. I don't understand! I'm just another kid! What is it about me that drives others away?

I need help with this, you guys. You're the only ones who accept me, aside from my family, obviously.

I have a pretty simialar problem.......im sorry you have to put up with that *shakes head* thank god im moving at the end of the year.........

I'm just glad I'm not alone. And yeah, today that one kid actually punched me in the stomach for no reason! And the bad news is he's not getting held back this year. I have to endure him for ANOTHER ENTIRE SCHOOLYEAR!!

[The BB of C offline]

Seriously, Jeremified, you're running out of options here. Unless you like the way these kids are treating you, beat the crap out of every last one of them. One by one if you have to.