Son Vs. Father.

[Crazy_For_Christ. offline]

Okay, everyone, yes I am a boy. Just letting you know.

Anyway, m dad has always been mean to me, my mom, and my brothers. We've called the police on him before, (A Long time ago) and got a restraining order against him, (A Long time ago) and now he is just being mean all the time. And, I'm afraid to go near him because whenever we go somewhere with him he always invites himself into the house for the night, and then keeps us all up all night yelling and screaming at my mom. I wish I knew how to handle this. Lindsay Lohan went through the same thing. If I knew her I'd ask.

But anyway, I need some Christian Advice. (No Offense) So, please help.

[. offline]

Christian Advice?



ha ha, sorry, wrestling humor.

No seriously what is is "Christian" advice? As opposed to... ya know "Jewish" advice or whatever?

Ah someone get Daisymay in here

[MY85 offline]

Ah someone get Daisymay in here

Dude... the author of this thread IS daisymay. And I haven't finished the Raw/Smackdown roster yet... but you know who's Vince and who's God...

On topic: Christian advice? Like sending your father to jail for violating the restraining order and get a priest visiting him and praying him the Bible?

[. offline]

Ah someone get Daisymay in here

Dude... the author of this thread IS daisymay. And I haven't finished the Raw/Smackdown roster yet... but you know who's Vince and who's God...

On topic: Christian advice? Like sending your father to jail for violating the restraining order and get a priest visiting him and praying him the Bible?

Ah ya know we should put a limit on people changing their names so freaking often. <.< sorry for the mix up Daisy

[lyokodragoness offline]

Though I'm not Christian (Don't hurt me! I hate religious debates!), I can give you some advice.

First off, try telling the authorities again. You may be able to set another restraining order. And if he's ever abused you, tell that too. He may go to jail.

If that doesn't work, move. Right away. Why do you even go near him anymore(no offense)? o.o;;

[Tom Bone offline]

I usually just tell my dad to shut his mouth, but that probably won't work for you. I, for one, am a pacifest. Try to seek an answer in a calm and peacful way.

[darktemplar offline]

Jail. Or divorce, if you don't like jail.

[lyokodude offline]

Well I for one would pray for him,but you probably have been doin that, I would go with dark templars advice.

[The BB of C offline]

Okay, everyone, yes I am a boy. Just letting you know.

Anyway, m dad has always been mean to me, my mom, and my brothers. We've called the police on him before, (A Long time ago) and got a restraining order against him, (A Long time ago) and now he is just being mean all the time. And, I'm afraid to go near him because whenever we go somewhere with him he always invites himself into the house for the night, and then keeps us all up all night yelling and screaming at my mom. I wish I knew how to handle this. Lindsay Lohan went through the same thing. If I knew her I'd ask.

But anyway, I need some Christian Advice. (No Offense) So, please help.

What does your mother do to keep him out of the house?

[Skiiran Lord offline]

If you really need to keep him out, get a tazer of sorts and have a Cell phone on hand to call the police. With luck, it'll be friday when he gets shipped out. Other than that, just listen to everyone else. They're giving better advice right now.

[mooshie offline]

well from what you've said it seems as if your mother is having the problems so...just a suggestion, maybe self-defense classes? just a suggestion

[. offline]

If you really need to keep him out, get a tazer of sorts and have a Cell phone on hand to call the police. With luck, it'll be friday when he gets shipped out. Other than that, just listen to everyone else. They're giving better advice right now.

or ya know, a stick or maybe a bat... or a rock... hell just something heavy to beat him with. Thats the "christian" thing to do LOL

[mooshie offline]

well apparently christian advice is what's neescessary so thing wwjd, so light him on fire and damn him to hell, but seriously, don't be afraid to talk to him, and when talking to him don't be afraid to use the Queen's english, if that doesn't work, remember the lock

[Skiiran Lord offline]

or ya know, a stick or maybe a bat... or a rock... hell just something heavy to beat him with. Thats the "christian" thing to do LOL

Seems to be, according to whichever Pope declared the First Crusade.

I KID, I kid.

Seriously though, I'd ask the police if they could keep a car, or four, patrolling your streets at night.

[Jeremified offline]

Though I'm not Christian (Don't hurt me! I hate religious debates!), I can give you some advice.

First off, try telling the authorities again. You may be able to set another restraining order. And if he's ever abused you, tell that too. He may go to jail.

If that doesn't work, move. Right away. Why do you even go near him anymore(no offense)? o.o;;

Don't worry. We Christians don't use violence to solve anything.

Man, I feel so sorry for you! The best thing I can suggest for your dad is counseling. He'll need that to become a kinder person.

[The BB of C offline]

Bull crap we don't use violence to solve anything.

[oddsgrlfriend offline]

I'm a Roman Catholic and all I can say is PRAY.

[Ransomed_Heart offline]

Personally, although I am Christian, I don't think my advice would change much either way at this point, beyond telling you to pray.

When you say he "invites himself in", it seems you are implying that your parents are seperated, or divorced. Either way, that is clearly not enough to stop this situation. Is the restraining order still in effect? Because if it is then you should go to the police because it is obviously being violated. I would urge some kind of counseling (from a school counselor, a pastor, or otherwise) for yourself and your brothers and your mother, because the shouting is verbal abuse. Most of all, don't be afraid to tell someone about this. Posting it on a forum is one thing, but going to an adult that you trust and who will help you take some sort of action is another entirely, and that may be what you need.

[The BB of C offline]

Professional grade, Ransomed_Heart.

[101sissyhater offline]

Okay, everyone, yes I am a boy. Just letting you know.

Anyway, m dad has always been mean to me, my mom, and my brothers. We've called the police on him before, (A Long time ago) and got a restraining order against him, (A Long time ago) and now he is just being mean all the time. And, I'm afraid to go near him because whenever we go somewhere with him he always invites himself into the house for the night, and then keeps us all up all night yelling and screaming at my mom. I wish I knew how to handle this. Lindsay Lohan went through the same thing. If I knew her I'd ask.

But anyway, I need some Christian Advice. (No Offense) So, please help.

im a Christian. so maybe i can help. pray for him, read the Bible, and trust in GOd. Even drag him to church. (you'll have to tell me how that goes) I hope everything will be good for you and you will be in my prayers.

101 says: Good luck.

[The BB of C offline]

Though a lot of people find comfort in that advice, I don't think it will work too well. Even though faith is important, sometimes you simply need a solution, not a church. I'm still trying to think of a possible one.

[Crazy_For_Christ. offline]

I usually just tell my dad to shut his mouth, but that probably won't work for you. I, for one, am a pacifest. Try to seek an answer in a calm and peacful way.

Last time I tried that.........I will say no more.

And 101Sissyhater, we've taken him to church before. All he does is just stand there and keeps his mouth shut during the songs, and does the bible stuff but learns bothing.

We have prayed for him so many times though.

JEREMIEFIED, the last time we took him to counseling he tried playing mind games with the counselor and then he and my mom got kicked out!

[. offline]

I usually just tell my dad to shut his mouth, but that probably won't work for you. I, for one, am a pacifest. Try to seek an answer in a calm and peacful way.

Last time I tried that.........I will say no more.

And 101Sissyhater, we've taken him to church before. All he does is just stand there and keeps his mouth shut during the songs, and does the bible stuff but learns bothing.

We have prayed for him so many times though.

JEREMIEFIED, the last time we took him to counseling he tried playing mind games with the counselor and then he and my mom got kicked out!

Honestly man, theres nothing you can do. Just leave it in Gods hands. Honestly thats the best serious advice I can give you.

[Delritho offline]

[quote="Jeremified"]Don't worry. We Christians don't use violence to solve anything. [quote]


You never heard of the Crusades have you? Or when the Spanish came to Mexico, They got the Message FROM GOD through the Pope to kill people who didn't belive in thier religion..... So yeah....Christians HAVE used violence to solve A LOT of things.... Maybe the current christians however don't but then again everybody today is a bunch of *WARNING*[s]pussies[/s]*WARNING*. SO there you have it. Anyway, I say renew the restraining order, or kick him in the balls and call him a cheater....that always works for me....]

[101sissyhater offline]

And 101Sissyhater, we've taken him to church before. All he does is just stand there and keeps his mouth shut during the songs, and does the bible stuff but learns bothing.

change the locks and get a restraining order.

101 says: thats all i have to say.