Confused

[101sissyhater offline]

okay i am going to start this story. be prepared cuz it is very very long.

I met this boy in the first grade. He was sweet and kinda shy. Since our school back then was very very small we went over to each others houses many times. he had been to b-day parties, easter.....
well in third grade the school closed down and we went to public school. since we lived in different boundries we went to different schools, but we still saw each other at church.
well in sixth grade (i had moved in the fifth grade but had stayed at my previous school) we went to the same middle school. i had developed a mini-crush on him but no big deal. He was just the boy in my lunch and pe that so happened to go to my church. i was to busy having the good life to worry too much about boys.
now i am graduating to the eigth grade and i am so confused. since all my friends had moved (some people who disliked them ran them out of school) i really did have no one or nothing to do. the only person i had was my friend "N" (lets call her that) who i only saw at P.E. well just my luck "D" (lets call him that) was in my P.E. class too. well i would pretty much just admire him from afar, nothing much. well the crush grew.
I started to hang out with this girl Beloved and she convinced me to tell him in a note. so i did and she delivered it to him. he said he liked me too, but he can't have girlfriend. but i was like kewlz. i was just pysched he liked me.
we flirted a bit for the next few months and i was cool. well things stated getting confusing. so last week beloved asked him what he thought of me. he said he liked liked me....as a friend. WTH is that supposed to mean. help....please

101 says: lovesick? yep.

[mooshie offline]

keep in mind if he can't be your "boyfriend" he probably lost interest, after all a lot of the time guys are only friends with girls to get into a more serious relationship, so naturally if all he could doo with you is flirt then he would get disinterested

SUMMARY: when it comes to girls most guys have the attention span equivalent to that of a flea's

P.S. I said most, so if you want to believe that you boyfriend is different (doubtful) go ahead and do so

[101sissyhater offline]

keep in mind if he can't be your "boyfriend" he probably lost interest, after all a lot of the time guys are only friends with girls to get into a more serious relationship, so naturally if all he could doo with you is flirt then he would get disinterested

SUMMARY: when it comes to girls most guys have the attention span equivalent to that of a flea's

P.S. I said most, so if you want to believe that you boyfriend is different (doubtful) go ahead and do so

well they do have a attentipon span of a ameoba. i know that cuz my best friends are guys. (i have girls as friends but mostly guys.) they are all idiots. they nice and i luv them like brothers nut they are sooo stupid. as for "d" it could be that his parents are UBER UBER UBER strict people. (trust me. i thought my 'rents were strict.)

101 says: boys....don't take offense. we know you are on LF but ya'll really do have short attention spans.

[mooshie offline]

well they do have a attentipon span of a ameoba. i know that cuz my best friends are guys. (i have girls as friends but mostly guys.) they are all idiots. they nice and i luv them like brothers nut they are sooo stupid. as for "d" it could be that his parents are UBER UBER UBER strict people. (trust me. i thought my 'rents were strict.)

101 says: boys....don't take offense. we know you are on LF but ya'll really do have short attention spans.

well in case you didn't know ( this often gets mistaken) I am a straight guy so we do have some awareness of our downfalls, but if one had to use but one word to describe guys that word would be as follows "dumb"

SUMMARY: guys are dumb, deal with it, 'cause it's not going to change unless of course we guys that are smart get girlfriends instead of righteously being labeled geeks:arg:, sorry about the rant this is your threas

[. offline]

guys are dumb sometimes, sure... but you women tend to have bad tastes in guys...

Well I know one girl that doesn't, but thats besides the point lol

[lyokowarriorteen20010 offline]

SUMMARY: when it comes to girls most guys have the attention span equivalent to that of a flea's

Hey I resent that! I have the attention span of a dog!

[101sissyhater offline]

i was reading the replies but i couldn't help but laugh. i dunno why but someone actually taking the time to answer my question is weird. that never happens.

mooshie it is okay that you were ranting cuz it really wasn't a rant.


101 says:

[Crazy_For_Christ. offline]

Well, here is a guy's advice.

I am definetley going to regret I say this, but us Boys usually loose interest in about a week or two before we're out of college if we're smart. The ones not smart will keep with the girl and fall in love. And falling in love in school/college is a big mistake.

So, he is just smart. That's all.

[Stonecreek]

Well, here is a guy's advice.

I am definetley going to regret I say this, but us Boys usually loose interest in about a week or two before we're out of college if we're smart. The ones not smart will keep with the girl and fall in love. And falling in love in school/college is a big mistake.

So, he is just smart. That's all.

Falling in love in college is common, and while it is not smart all of the time, many times it does work out. Two of my friends were married in April, before they graduated, and next June two more of my friends are getting married. Both couples have been together for four-plus years before taking the vows, and both fell in love early in college. I might've made it through college without falling in love, but that does not mean it can't work.

[The BB of C offline]

More examples of the above, my sister is getting married this August to a guy she met in College.

[lyokowarriorteen20010 offline]

And falling in love in school/college is a big mistake.

Ok sure.. NOT!

[Tom Bone offline]

Ah, love problems. I'm sorry, but I might not be much help considering that no girl would love an obsessive skeleton. But, back to your problem. I think you should keep doing what you were doing and perhaps he'd open up more? Do stuff with him, I dunno...

[mooshie offline]

exactly you need to draw attention back to yourself equivalent th=o that which you have lost, so... I guess it really depends on how much interest he has lost then help him start to find it