dad marrying a girl I (hate) don't like

[mooshie offline]

well here is the whole story, my dad just got back from a buisiness trip, and over dinner, he says that he got married with this girl he was dating, who he met because she was tutoring me and he's old enough to be her father, and to cheer me up he tells me she's pregnant, and I'm going to be leaving the house in four years so all I get is the four years of screaming and dirty diapers, and I try to talk toi him about it but he just blows me off any advice, sentiments, or agreements are wecome, for now I'll just listen to angry music

[Stephen (x1)]

That's messed up. He comes back from a trip and is married and expecting a child? WTF. You needa like...write your dad a letter saying you need to talk...badly.

[mooshie offline]

no he's here, interestingly enough with the girl that he's is going to marry and he impregnated, so I can't really talk about how much I hate her, and how much her whine grates on my nerves, and how I hate having to be dressed when I walk around the house etc. etc. ...

[Stephen (x1)]

no he's here, interestingly enough with the girl that he's is going to marry and he impregnated, so I can't really talk about how much I hate her, and how much her whine grates on my nerves, and how I hate having to be dressed when I walk around the house etc. etc. ...

What I meant was to write him a letter, since he's ignoring you in person. Tell him your feelings in it, and leave by his bed or something.

[mooshie offline]

that makes sense, or I could "accidentally" leave my journal lying around which contains how much I hate the girl on just about every other page, yeah... or not, or yes

[Vora Lyoko offline]

No. Tell him how you feel. And if you have to, when he gets back tell him personally.

[Jeremified offline]

:puke1:

Okay, if you just don't like the girl, go for the heart-to-heart talk with your dad.
If you REALLY don't like the girl, go for the ANGRY heart-to heart talk with your dad.
If you actually fully HATE the girl AND you feel mischievous, try a "parent trap"!

Now for a question: what is it about this girl that you hate so much?

[HYDEfangirl offline]

That's messed up. He comes back from a trip and is married and expecting a child? WTF. You needa like...write your dad a letter saying you need to talk...badly.

I aggree with x1 that is totally messed up

[mooshie offline]

well to answer jeremified's question, I hate her laugh, her stubbornness, she's spoiled, she's a leech, she is young enough to be my dad's daughter, she is a immigrant so she has a really annoying accent, she's a know-it-all (ok so am I, but still), it's partially for her sake, my dad was her first american boyfriend so she isn't even trying anyone else, ok my dad is getting out of the shower so bye for now

[Jeremified offline]

Okay now, you should definitely be bugged by the parts concerning her being a know-it all, young, spoiled, and stubborn. But her laugh, accent, and immigrance status? You really shouldn't laugh at those, as it can be considered prejudice.

[Carth]

Your dad really should have considered telling you before he went off and did that.

...and I can't think of anything else to say.

[mooshie offline]

ok so I'll drop those traits, but the others are still annoying as h*ll, the most annoying one is that she's a leech, especially since my dad was forced out of sales, so we no longer make as much and have to cut back

EDIT: I have to get ready for my graduation, it involves tea packs, peanut butter and a bath tub, I will say no more

[The BB of C offline]

That edit sounds like a prank to me.

[mooshie offline]

and if it is a prank ...?

[The BB of C offline]

I don't know. It just seemed to me like you had a prank planned there.

[MY85 offline]

Sidenote 1: The quote thing now works, in case you don't care about what goes on around the forum.
Sidenote 2: A improvement on your spelling would be better, mooshie.

ok so I'll drop those traits, but the others are still annoying as h*ll, the most annoying one is that she's a leech, especially since my dad was forced out of sales, so we no longer make as much and have to cut back

Usually, every woman that is involved with a older man for a relationship are leeches. My dad (separated from my mother, acutally) is not only only being absorbed by his current lover, but also absorbed by her entire f***ing family!! Define her family (she being 26 or 27 and the oldest from her siblings)... 3 sisters, 1 brother (being 19 as the youngest) and 2 parents... If anyone dares to tell this guy to stop whining about this issue and saying that his life sucks and he should stop whining about his life... *raises fist*

They kiss my dad's *ss a lot, they brainwashed my brother... and they can't say stuff about me in front on my dad's face (I know they talk things behind my back, and so did I), otherwise everything they accomplished with my dad goes to hell.

The true point at the moment: your dad will not listen to you, unless he recapacites quickly. You can still try talking to him, but he won't care as long as he loves her. but not everything lasts forever... or they can die or the relationship can die.

In my case, I can't do anything but to wait for it to die. But what my dad's lover accomplished (that includes a free postgrade degree and getting a job) is a lot enough for me to say that she deserves to be murdered. Or you can try avoiding them, which worked for me for a while, but it isn't that satisfactory, knowing that both are still together and alive.

Whatever happens with you, good luck.

And the last thing that sounds like a prank... tea packs, peanut butter and a bath tub... add to it chloroform and a taser if I think you're going to accomplish what I think you're going to do.

[Carth]

If anyone dares to tell this guy to stop whining about this issue and saying that his life sucks and he should stop whining about his life... *raises fist*

You use a fist, I use the large red text. :D

[MY85 offline]

If anyone dares to tell this guy to stop whining about this issue and saying that his life sucks and he should stop whining about his life... *raises fist*

You use a fist, I use the large red text. :D

Carth... what's your exact point with that aside from possible spamming intentions? Okay... I see it... but... still, happy because of red text? What the hell?

Anyways, as for my dad having a lover, it's the second time he's on this. The first time lasted from 1997 'til 2000... it just simply died, but she wasn't much of a leech compared to the others... okay, my dad helped her family a bit... but still, all women who are leeches are nothing but sluts who can't accomplish to get a decent job (or take a huge chance to drain cash from a young/old rich guy or job or take oportunities to progress in their jobs) and somehow seems like a "legal" way to become a prostitute with just one guy. Maybe I could be wrong on the last statement...

[Tom Bone offline]

That's messed up. He comes back from a trip and is married and expecting a child? WTF. You needa like...write your dad a letter saying you need to talk...badly.

I aggree with x1 that is totally messed up

Totally messed up... This is crazy.... I really have nothing to say except that I pray it works out in your favor.