Love life

[LyOkOfReAk21 offline]

I like this guy. He is sooo hot and is very popular (that is not y i like him) but i an afraid to tell him because if he says no then he might tell the whole class i like him and told him.

[DarkestSoul X21 offline]

I kind of know what you mean (since I'm a boy). A girl was following me all day and when I found out and kind of yell at her to make her go away then she was crying and asked if I want to go out with her. So I am saying just do it. If he says no and does tell the school. I bet you will hang in there.

[Gauntlet offline]

Bleh, I'm going to have to say something. If he's going to tell the class/school, and ruin your reputation over that, is that the kind of guy you want to meet? I mean, I guess you should ask him, I belive it'd be better to find out then and there what kind of a person he is.

My two cents.

[dipzy131 offline]

that is so true! If he is going to tell everyone, then he is not worth it and you are to good for him.

[jym1 offline]

with my first crush, I waited untill the last days before summer before I told her, that way the shame would only last so long. Maybe you should just hold out till winter break

[Evil Ulrich offline]

Yea just go in there and if he says no well that's your problem.

[Sakura2121 offline]

Do you really like him if you think he would tell the whole class maybe he is um well a jerk and you could do alot better.

[. offline]

Question- Are you friends with this boy or no? If yes how well?

[jayde_child offline]

Well it depends if he even knows you. Are you his friend or something? You can't just go up to a guy that doesn't even know you and tell him that you like him.

[adrimarie offline]

I would go with the majority here--- are you and this guy (close) friends or something? If so, it's just right to just let him know how you feel, but you also have to think of other factors too (like how is this going to affect your friendship with this guy or what not).

If this guy is pretty much a stranger (meaning you're not friends w/ him or you've never even met him at all), then you're more infatuated w/ this guy (probably because of his looks or his reputation?), and that's not good. Not only that you'll mess yourself up, the guy may mess you up all the same too.

[Lyokofreak offline]

To start off, I'd first like to say that nobody is "too good" for the other. If you are an adolescent, then you really shouldn't care. Everyone finds physical and social attraction, and later end up not liking the person. It's a cycle that happens far too often.

Want personal advice from a boy?

If you're not commonly talking to him, try to be at the friend level, and that will get you out of the "like" stage.

As others said before, I'll try to word this different; "He's an immature little kid" who would go out of his way to tell other about someone's personal feelings for him just to either gain popularity or hurt your feelings, the dude isn't less or better than you, he's just not worth the hassle.

I study the female psychology a bit, and combined with Pheromones, you can get very far.

A year ago, I started on my journey to learning the female mind. About 2 months into it, I thought of something. I put everything I learned together, applied some Pheromone Cologne (Ignore how many times sex is used in the results) and tried it on this girl I liked. It was a normal day, we were returning from a field trip. She's usually ignoring me or messing with some other guy, but today, she sat next to me because I was sitting next to my friend Cory but insisted that if I fell asleep, it would be kind of gay if we both fell asleep and woke up resting on each other. He asked her to switch seats, she didn't know why, so she ended up sitting next to me. I had a Phero Cologne bottle in my pocket, so I swiftly applied it to myself when she wasn't looking. I eavesdropped on her conversation with someone describing herself when she's horny 2 weeks earlier. Within a minute, she was starting to act really weird. It started by her being unusually curious like "Why are you smiling?". This meant alot since we didn't speak much. Then, it moved to silence. She turned around started blushing really hard and then she was acting "horny" as she described herself. I was amazed at how she tried to contain it, but she was literally licking her lower lip and biting it. This was only a test of my strategy, with minimal application of the cologne. When we arrived at camp, she started to pout and then moved away from the group of people we were in to the corner of the building. I'm assuming she was mad I didn't make a move. If any of you thought what I did was wrong, keep it to yourself. >=p

So, give it a try if you're willing to go far.
Being that you're a girl, study the male psychology.
Once again, ignore the descriptions about getting laid and get the least expensive stuff.

[Ulrich's lil bro offline]

O_O Wow... uhuh, lots of use of mature things eh. Especially that word that a lot of guys and girls use to describe certain feeling. Horny. I never thought I would see somebody blurt it out like that. Horny... and sex...

*finsishes writing down stuff*

Well, if you like this guy, you have to take things slow, because you don't know what a male can do when he isn;t thinking much. Get more associated with him if you can, and then dive in smoothly and don't sound eager.

I don't know, not a really good idea to get inspiration from me, since I don't have any personal experience. Good luck....

[Overcaffeinated Sloth offline]

Oh yay, Another one.

Listen. I have the same problem. Since I was three. There was always this Cute guy (Now they're not cute, they HOTT!) that I liked, but I couldn't even look at him because I always thought it would be too obvious and he'd go off either screaming or laughing or telling everyone.

Now that I'm in high school, and a bit more mature (And thinking about guys even MORE, it's amazing I'm still here...) I've decided that my best bet is to try to put it out of your mind, and just be a bit friendly That's friendly as in FRIENDly, not the girllind of friendly or the cat kind of frielndly. Each time you seem to become a bit closer and closer, you start to become more like friends, and it's far more easy to relax. Unfortunately, this aslo involves sitting yourself down and taking this into consideration, that you are going to have to stop thinking of kissing him and more of talking to him.

(Yeah, I know, that kissing part was hard for me too)