Annoying kid (again)

[ji45ojperjfenfpen offline]

Okay, this is about the same boy I ranted about it my earlier posts.


He says I'm his friend, but yet he is so cruel to me. I try not to talk to him sometimes, but he keeps coming back. No matter what, he seems to always be there. If I tell him to stop talking to me, he just gets all mad and says "F*** you" and thats it. But the next day he is there again, following me, trying to talk to me, ect. I try to stay away from him, but he continues to try and talk to me. When he sees me, he will be like "why do you look like (mimmicks and exaggerates my expression)?" Or, he will make fun of the way I stand or walk, even though I dont even look like he says I do. My hair is naturally thick and frizzy-like, and he says its 'ugly and horrifying'. I dont understand it. He has made my life hell since 6th grade. Why did he choose me to pick on? Of all the people who have ever picked on me in middle school, he is the most consistant. He just always has to talk to me when he sees me. I tell him to go away. but he wont. I HATE him so much that if he died, I wouldnt care. Maybe, I would feel much better. I know that sounds horrible, but I dont care.

He seems someone nicer than he was years ago, but sometimes the way he acts, he is just the same. I hate the way he looks. The way he sounds. I hate everything about him to where I get headaches and feel sick just worrying about school and how he will be there. He has said things that I can tell he is trying to make me feel lower. I am tempted to tell a teacher at school to talk to him and tell him to leave me alone.

[matsumo itsu offline]

get a restrainin order

[Gauntlet offline]

He seems someone nicer than he was years ago, but sometimes the way he acts, he is just the same. I hate the way he looks. The way he sounds. I hate everything about him to where I get headaches and feel sick just worrying about school and how he will be there. He has said things that I can tell he is trying to make me feel lower. I am tempted to tell a teacher at school to talk to him and tell him to leave me alone.

That's probably the best option. Part of me wants to say he likes you, since most guys can't finish a sentence in front of a girl ("bwudub...you're so..p-p-pretty "), but this guy...no, whether he likes you or not, he doesn't deserve to treat you like that. It really does bother me to see people get thrown around and treated the wrong way, but act like nothing is wrong.

You already admit and see the problem, so you're good. I say, talk to a teacher, talk to your parents, and protect yourself. A teacher can somewhat enforce the rules, but they can't always catch him. Your parents will probably call his parents, and they'll most likely settle something and get him off your case. This guy really sounds obsessive and controlling; that's a lot of stress. Bombard him with everything you can, but don't talk to him personally. If you've given him time to explain his case, but he misses the opportunity, just barrage him with everything you can: teachers, parents, whatever.

Don't ignore the problem. Tell a teacher. Don't be afraid of "tattle-tail" or whatever kids will say, it'll be better for you in the long run. Childish antics only last for a while; people destroying your lives can last forever if you don't do something.

If you need someone to talk to, you can PM me. I don't know how comfortable anyone would be chatting to a stranger, but if you're okay with that, I'm here.

[matsumo itsu offline]

yeah that might work better than my plan,and thats kind of yea.(i sometimes dont care if people cant throwin around,but i do care if im in a certain mood)

[Andy Waltfeld offline]

This is not a friend. The only proper designation for him is BKO-restricted.

I know because I've had to put up with several "friends" in the past who claim to know me from middle school and make idiotic comments about whatever I'm currently doing. If I'm staring at a wall of computer text, for example, some jerk will ask if I'm looking at cartoon pr0n. This angers me for two reasons.

1) I'm clearly NOT looking at it, despite my occasional pursuits at home. This is the school network, and damned if I'm leaving a browser history with that kind of stuff.
2) The guy who asks this question goes into a little tirade of several Rule 34-esque examples, mostly comprised of Disney and Warner Bros.' anthro characters. I'm not a furry unless you're a good artist.

[FènéethxAelita offline]

No friend indeed. Just ignore him, eventually he'll stop. This can take quite a while, though.

[matsumo itsu offline]

act like jeremie(no not when he is at the super computer,but when he is at school)just say some realy huge words that no one will ever understand until he leaves ya be.

[Phoenix Wolf offline]

I know exactly how you feel, I was a living target in middle school. It was as if people picked on me for a sport because I had braces and glasses and was little. But you cannot let that stop you. You cannot let them wear you down, no matter how much they annoy you. The only advice I can give you is stay positive. The way I survived was I became a book worm and lost my self in books. I also started writing fanfiction I created a world of my own from words where there were no bullies. I created a place in which I could be free. Find something you love doing whether it is writing or reading or listening to music or art and allow it to help you through.

[Andy Waltfeld offline]

Creative escapism, like the example above, can be just the boost of self-confidence you need to tell the guy off, but don't overdo it. Otherwise, you may suffer Total Reality Disconnection and devolve into an Otakukin.

[Phoenix Wolf offline]

Affirmitive.... You are exactly right. I was using creative escapeism, also it gave me an outlet to vent my feelings so that I would not do anything that I would regret in the future.

[Rail Runner offline]

That has helped me through alot of rough times in my life as well. Definitely take up a hobby, and you will be suprised at how much it can help.

[Lyokogirl_147 offline]

Alright, you said you try ignoring him, but do you do anything when he bothers you? act like you don't care and then he won't like to do it anymore. Try it.

[Phoenix Wolf offline]

It might work... Sometimes it does, believe me I speak from experience.... I was teased relentlessly in elementry and middle school... I became obssessed with my grades, and science, as well as becoming a bookworm.... I still am it changed me... I didn't even tell my parents because I wanted to protect them... Take my advice, don't let it get that far, you will regret it... I know I do... But if you continue to have problems pm me and I can help you out.