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My Friends are going through tough times...

Postby DeadViolet » Tue May 15, 2007 7:48 pm

Yup. Two of my E-friends(more like Aquantincces) are having it tough....One's through Abuse, and one might die....
Here's what they said.

AsunaNegi(Aquastar Anime/Manga forums said:
GUESS WHAT!? THIS iS NEW AND ORIGINAL!
Well, I just got punched and kicked and hreatened to be disowned and killed by my dad. It's so funny. I just ask how I should clean up a mess (which was caused by my mom asking me to get up and walk 20 feet to the printer which was about 5 feet from her to pick up the papers and hand them over. I didn't want to get up; I had just spent a few hours cleaning up our new house's construction site, forced by my dad) and he gets irritated. He tells me to stop being stupid and clean it up.
I don't know what to use to clean it up (I'm pretty house stupid), so I ask again. He gets really loud and yells to stop being stupid. I don't know what to use to clean up a cushin that's been soaking in broth for 5 minutes. Do I use a dry paper towel? A dry towel? Damp? I don't know, and I didn't want to piss him off any more...but my mind was essentially gone (I don't do well under manual labor) and I asked once more. He gets up, yelling, throws a laundry basket at me. It continues through the kitchen, with him punching me and grabbing me by the throat. I manage to skwirm loose, and I fall back through a doorway after getting punched again. I fall to the floor where my mom tries to break it up, and he kicks me. I ask him if he's trying to kill me. He says yes.

My mom tells me to quickly run to my room, but my dad follows, badmouthing me as he goes. He follows me in, and then punches me once more, saying that I'll never win. My mom rushes in, asking what I did to anger him again. I tell her that he's punching me. At this point I'm in the corner on the ground, and he starts saying that if I ever disrespect him again, play stupid, etc. he'll disown me and put me in a home. At this point, I don't know why, but I start cracking up. Infact, I'm still laughing just remembering it. Which is wierd beause I'm scared @$#^less. Getting threatened by a 20-Year Enlisted 46 year old man that has large muscles is nothing to, no pun intended, laugh at. He walks out at this point, and I'm here in my room.
Such a wonderful life, eh? He must have gone soft on the punches and kicks though, because there's no bruises. Thank god, because if he hadn't, I'd have a few broken limbs, and I wouldn't be able to type this.


nagi-kun(Mahora Academy forums) said:
sorry if i had to leave... i consider this my last day on the internet and in the real world.. y`all don`t know this but i suffer from lukemia and i don`t know how this happend... im realy sorry guys


Help, please. ;__;
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Postby nap* » Tue May 15, 2007 8:17 pm

To the first E friend, I would tell them to call to police, his/her father was totally out of order, until he takes anger management classes or something like that he should be near anyone at all. If they won't do that then the safest thing would be for the E friend to stay a friend or close relative's house. Domestic violence/child abuse is serious issue.

Sorry but I don't know how to help with the second E friend, the only thing to do would be to remeber the good times you've had with them on the forum.
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Postby Gauntlet » Tue May 15, 2007 9:11 pm

I agree with what nap* said. Misha-san, you should probably recommend that she gives a call to the police about it. If she doesn't want to comply, I'd suggest you file a report yourself; I'm pretty sure they have ways of locating her, and I'm sure they will make it an anonymous tip if it ever comes to it. You may lose contact with her for a while, depending on how things progress for her, but she'll be better off, I'm sure.

As for your other friend, I say just make the best of what you have right now. I'm not sure how well you know the person (well enough to send them an E-card or the like, or you've just seen a few posts and you don't know them at all), but whichever it is, think positive around them. I can't offer much else than that, since it seems like (s)he has already left your forum, though.

My condolences go out to them, and I hope you can deal with whatever comes to pass without sorrow.
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Postby DeadViolet » Thu May 17, 2007 7:28 pm

Nagi-kun.....
He....he....
died....
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Postby Rail Runner » Thu May 17, 2007 9:13 pm

*sighs and hugs you* Misha, Im sorry to hear that. If you need to talk, feel free to pm me. I have lost friends this way as well.
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Postby DeadViolet » Thu May 17, 2007 9:38 pm

Thanks. I can't listen to "You'll be in my Heart" without thinking of him....
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Postby codeTONY » Thu May 17, 2007 9:40 pm

*hugu*

Man, it's tough to hear things like that. Good luck, though, one of my friends drowned recently trying to show how long he could stay underwater... in a stream with an undertow...

He was a real friend, so it was really hard for me, but, the best way to "get over" things like this is just to meet new people. New relationship can fix old ones. :D


Oh, and for that first friend, seriously tell them to tell someone. It'll be extremely hard for then to do so, but encourage them. believe me. :/
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Postby Rail Runner » Thu May 17, 2007 9:40 pm

The pain will heal...Just keep whatever good times and fun you may have had together in your mind and heart, and when you think of him, let it be those good times. It will make it hurt less, and it will make you smile too. I know it may not seem like it right now..but trust me on this one.
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Postby Phoenix Wolf » Fri May 18, 2007 2:58 pm

:cussout: Misha I am really sorry, I say have your friends mom call the police, he needs either anger management or to be thrown under lock and key. :devil: It is people like that who really tick me off, people who pick on ones smaller then themselves. I know I have been there, I haven't been beaten but I was picked on. But that guy what a jerk some one needs to teach him a lesson.
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Postby nap* » Fri May 18, 2007 3:05 pm

I'm sorry to hear about your loss but you will get through it.
I wish I could be more supportive but nothing like this has happened to me before.
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Postby Rail Runner » Fri May 18, 2007 6:24 pm

You really need to report your dad..that is most definitely child abuse...something needs to be done.
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Postby Reesane » Fri May 18, 2007 6:40 pm

*Sniff*

I know how you feal....

I had a friend on my other forum who died of a sudden heart attack a few months ago. We have memoral thread over their and everything. ;__;
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