first date

[matsumo itsu offline]

Hi im wanting to ask this girl on a date,but i am very limited to only the movies and the libarary. What should i do if she doesnt like the libaray and i dont have enough for the movies.But where should i go if im allowed to go somewhere else.what would be a good spot in marion ohio for a first date.

[Rail Runner offline]

Hmmmm...bowling?...ummmm pizza place?...I dont know much about Marion Ohio...except for that there is a prison near there.

[matsumo itsu offline]

well i was thinkin so we could kinda be more alone and or in a quiet place.movie so no one can see us.or libarary so we wont be interupted

[Phoenix Wolf offline]

I suggest the movie and then like lunch afterwards.. That is what the boy back home did and it was enjoyable. We had alot of fun and it was really peaceful and nice. Sometimes we still do it, but I don't feel the same way for him as I did in high school. We do it now just to hang out and it is still very relaxing.

[Overcaffeinated Sloth offline]

Consider: Is this girl very shy? Has she gone out with many people? Speaking as a girl, a good first date with someone is usually somewhere public, so they won't feel so pressured.

[matsumo itsu offline]

she isnt shy.and movie and lunch does sound wonderful.but out of a 13 year olds budget that doesnt get allowence.

[.asphyxiate.me. offline]

Hmm. Well, sometimes when a guy takes me out on a date, he takes me to the mall. There's tons of things you can do at the mall with a low budget, like go to the arcade, take pictures, eat, or play in some of the stores. Just don't get kicked out of the stores unless she thinks getting kicked out is fun (like me and my friends =DD).

But if you are looking for a more quiet place, try taking her to a park for lunch. You should make it like a hand-made picnic thing; those are always enjoyable. =]

[yumi_yemimah offline]

You can go to the dollar movies if their is one around where you live.
They play the same movies that were in the movie theaters just only for a doller a person.

[Rail Runner offline]

The picnic idea is definitely one of the best ideas here.

[Tekirai offline]

^ A picnic sounds like a good idea to me. :3 They're quiet and people rarely ever bother you. And they can be fun if you do the right things. Bringing foods that she likes would be good too.

Hmm... as a 13-year-old girl myself, I wouldn't mind going out anywhere (even a walk sounds fun :D) as long as I know that both me and my date will enjoy it, and nothing drastic has to be done for it. Although it would be nice... ( o_o)

*has never went on a date with anyone before, so she's just using her initiative here* >_>;;

[Phoenix Wolf offline]

I agree just have a back up plan in case it rains like have some place you can go and still have your picnic...