Problem with Friend

[DJAelitaHopper offline]

I'm getting so tired of my friend doing this to me. For Example, I was hanging out with my friend one day
another of one her friends comes to visit. She goes over to her friend
and just has a good time with her. she always runs off without telling me
and then she always ignores me when I try to talk to her
and I want to say something to her but I just dont know what to say.
What should I do?

[Rail Runner offline]

What I would do is ask her to talk to you privately, and let her know how you feel when that happens. If she is a true friend, then she will understand and change her ways a bit to accomodate both you and her other friend, she should say, hey, lets all talk together, or something like that.

[matsumo itsu offline]

id just forget her, if she dont want to talk to you thats her prob, im sure your a nice intellegiant person, so her loose(sp?).

[Gauntlet offline]

I had to deal with that for a while. Luckily (and though unfortunately), I had to get really tough around him and I ended up giving him an ultimatum. If she doesn't agree to Highway Runner's statements (and your own), there isn't much you can do.

I feel that friends can accept a break up and not feel that much attachment. Best friends have much more trouble doing so, because they click so well. Which one is she?