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[Odd-Like-Me offline]

i am so sick of life these days. me and my friends used to be all happy and jokey, now it just is bitching all the time. i hate it. i want something interesting and exiting to pop up. tv even helps but i get home late because of school. i just need a good friend right now. and mabye a good tv show

[Little Vili offline]

Good friends is what we're all about. As for tv shows, watch Full Metal Alchemist, or Ghost In The Shell: Stand Alone Complex. And basically lots of other stuff on adult swim.

[SamBlob offline]

Suggestions:

Learn to draw.

Read "Watership Down", "One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest", "Nineteen Eighty-Four", "The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn" or "A Tale of Two Cities". Or, if you're not averse to horror, "The Stand" or "The Shining".

Get a hobby or an interest. This has the added advantage of being able to find friends among other enthusiasts, unlike drawing or reading which are generally solitary practices.

[Odd22 offline]

Oh my god not the shining by Stephen King, that is a scary (ish) movie. Umm i ahve only one suggestion right now. Go through school spend all your time on that, then worry about ather things.

[SamBlob offline]

The book's better, but it might be more scary.

Of Stephen King's horror books, The Shining and The Stand are relatively mild, although The Stand is *LONG*!!! For really scary stuff, try It or Cujo. I have not read Pet Semetary or Salem's Lot, and I *really* don't want to...

[Overcaffeinated Sloth offline]

i am so sick of life these days. me and my friends used to be all happy and jokey, now it just is bitching all the time. i hate it. i want something interesting and exiting to pop up. tv even helps but i get home late because of school. i just need a good friend right now. and mabye a good tv show

Aww, If it makes you feel netter, I feel the same way. Except I'm now on anti-depressants.

And If it helps, I'll be your friend!

[Odd-Like-Me offline]

i guess so, and thanks for the reading sugestions, i've see a few of the movies and i bet those books would be good

[Dylan0513 offline]

i am so sick of life these days. me and my friends used to be all happy and jokey, now it just is bitching all the time. i hate it. i want something interesting and exiting to pop up. tv even helps but i get home late because of school. i just need a good friend right now. and mabye a good tv show

Aww, If it makes you feel netter, I feel the same way. Except I'm now on anti-depressants.

I hope you're joking, because my Spanish teacher told us her friend died after thinking she didn't need the medication anymore. Then she commited suiside.

[Paige offline]

Wow. Your being overdramatic and immature. I know for a FACT that eahc and every one of you can go out there and get tonnnns of friends. The problem is, you just won't. And that's sad. Once you get some good friends, with some fun activities to do, then you can stop sitting around in front of the computer all day and feeling sorry for yourself. Don't get depressed okay? It's stupid and there is NO reason to get depressed. I mean take me for example, I JUST moved last month, and I have lots of friends here and things to do. I still miss my friends back in FL. I could've gotten all depressed, but I didn't and I'm not. So you don't either. There is no reason for it. Just get a friend not a gay tv show. Tv shows will not help you feel better. Actual people will.

[Razputin Nein offline]

^thank you.

[Paige offline]

your welcome.

[Little Vili offline]

I know for a FACT that eahc and every one of you can go out there and get tonnnns of friends.

When you have social anxiety, whatever may seem easy to you, seems really hard to them.

In my town, I cant just "go out and make friends." Me, I have what I have. I do have people who respect me, and I have a few people I can hang out with. Most of the time though, a lot of the kids are busy and such. I basically just spend time in my room, listening to music, or playing RPG's. And of course, watch anime when possible. My plan for making friends is being put off till college (only one more year after this! w00t!)

[YDV offline]

Wow. Your being overdramatic and immature. I know for a FACT that eahc and every one of you can go out there and get tonnnns of friends. The problem is, you just won't. And that's sad. Once you get some good friends, with some fun activities to do, then you can stop sitting around in front of the computer all day and feeling sorry for yourself. Don't get depressed okay? It's stupid and there is NO reason to get depressed. I mean take me for example, I JUST moved last month, and I have lots of friends here and things to do. I still miss my friends back in FL. I could've gotten all depressed, but I didn't and I'm not. So you don't either. There is no reason for it. Just get a friend not a gay tv show. Tv shows will not help you feel better. Actual people will.

That is not true. Maybe it is for you, but not everyone. Because I know for a FACT that lots of people don't have tonnnnnnns of friends. Some times people just aren't naturally social butterflies or w/e. I moved here three years ago and I still only have a few friends. But the ones I have are good ones, not "fair weather friends" or anything, like half of the people who have 8 billion friends' are. I don't have tonnnnnns because I don't instantly befriend anyone with a mouth. You sound extremely mean by the way and I don't see how that was supposed to help.

Oh.. and dear god do NOT read Watership Down. It was so horrid.. it's about bunnies.. and.. governments.. and.. I couldn't even look at a book for a month after reading that *gags*

[DarkestSoul X21 offline]

u can read a cool book

wow, this is my 200th post!!!

[Odd-Like-Me offline]

I know for a FACT that eahc and every one of you can go out there and get tonnnns of friends.

When you have social anxiety, whatever may seem easy to you, seems really hard to them.

In my town, I cant just "go out and make friends." Me, I have what I have. I do have people who respect me, and I have a few people I can hang out with. Most of the time though, a lot of the kids are busy and such. I basically just spend time in my room, listening to music, or playing RPG's. And of course, watch anime when possible. My plan for making friends is being put off till college (only one more year after this! w00t!)

wow. i hope things get better for you vili :/

[Paige offline]

[quote="Your De-Virtualization You sound extremely mean by the way and I don't see how that was supposed to help.quote]

No. I'm not being mean. I'm just tired of hearing how everyone says their lives suck. And I decided to say something about how I felt. Sorry if I was mean. It's just time to face the facts.

[Odd-Like-Me offline]

well your statenment was over dramatic, and i dont like the way you said the gay tv show thing and all, but thanks, it's kinda stupid to be depressed.

[GOGOLINIICHAN! offline]

Okay, well, Paige, you were a bit mean but I can tell that you meant well, at least. I do agree with a lot of things that you are saying but really, you must understand that it IS hard for some people to make friends. You have been gifted with good people skills and the kind of personality that easily attracts friends.. but not everyone else has that, so forcing that upon them is a bit mean.

However, I do think that no matter what your personality type, you CAN still make friends. It, of course, will be difficult for some people but it's not impossible. You just have to put yourself out there and be friendly. It may be more work at first but chances are you'll make the right kind of friends for you.

Personally, I have a few true friends and many, many "sorta" friends, meaning people I just occasionally converse with at school. So, don't think that you have to have tonnns of friends, like Paige said, because in reality even if you end up with a million sorta friends, you will always only have a few true friends.

[Paige offline]

Could not have said it any better myself Linii.

[Overcaffeinated Sloth offline]

Except I'm now on anti-depressants.

I hope you're joking, because my Spanish teacher told us her friend died after thinking she didn't need the medication anymore. Then she commited suiside.

I'm not. My mother's side of the family has a strong history of depression. But toda It was declared after three years of it, I don't need then any more!

[Paige offline]

Except I'm now on anti-depressants.

I hope you're joking, because my Spanish teacher told us her friend died after thinking she didn't need the medication anymore. Then she commited suiside.

I'm not. My mother's side of the family has a strong history of depression. But toda It was declared after three years of it, I don't need then any more!

WOW! Thats AWESOME!!! We should have a party!

[Overcaffeinated Sloth offline]

Already did, came home from it, got sick from eating three birthday cakes and a turkey cake.

[4lpha0mega offline]

well to be honest im not that bothered about freinds, i have them obviously, but i see little point getting worked up about it when after 6th form, collage, university whatever you decide to do, then you might not see them again anyway obviously its nice to have freinds and stay in contact, but i think its kinda stupid to have freinds just for the sake of of it, or to be "cool"

and as for the b*tching part, i have some freinds who, if i walk home with, b*tch all the time, and to be honest its annoying, but i guess they only do that becouse they want to feel they're superior to someone else

[SamBlob offline]

Oh.. and dear god do NOT read Watership Down. It was so horrid.. it's about bunnies.. and.. governments.. and.. I couldn't even look at a book for a month after reading that *gags*

Interesting that you have a bunny in your sig,,, if he's to become our rah then he's going to need the support of the local owsla...

[YDV offline]

...you like torturing me don't you.... O.O

Bunny will soon become PRESIDENT. And... we don't have an owsla.